im sooo confused

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Registered: 06-02-2006
im sooo confused
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Thu, 03-29-2007 - 7:55am

Hi

My name is Melissa and ive deen ttc since jan.. so my af was due yesterday and nothing came... and i am super regular.. never ever late... anyhow i took a preg test yest and it came out neg.. im having this weird cramps.. they arent the normal period cramps that i usually get.. and i never get cramps until after i get my period.. im so confused.. i have no idea if im just late or could i be pregnant.. can anyone please help me out with any advice that they can give.. ive done so much reading on the net that now i dont know what to believe..o by the way i woke up this morning with no period and kind of sick to my stomach.. HELP ME....

thanks

MElissa

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Registered: 11-06-2006
Thu, 03-29-2007 - 1:08pm

Hello,


You should wait a couple of days and retest. If you get BFN, call your doctor and have him do some bloodwork.


Keep us posted!
~Lisa

TTC to conceive #1 officially since 2001. Dh had Varicocele surgery 2005 and has low sperm count. Dh tried Clomid..it didnt really help, HSG in 1999 and 2005, Charting since Jan 2006, <

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Registered: 03-29-2007
Thu, 03-29-2007 - 1:09pm

Hi, my name is Susan & I'm going to join the "Confused" Club!!

This is our first month TTC. My periods have always been like clockwork, even since I've been off the pill. My AF should have been here yesterday, but she still hasn't arrived. I took a test yesterday afternoon, & had a negative result. I was sort of expecting it, since it was so late in the day & I had been drinking tons of water & pottying all day (sorry if that is TMI). This morning, I got up & took one first thing. Another negative! Still no AF!! What is going on? Am I or am I not? The first test, I used a cup & put the stick in for 5 seconds, per the directions. This morning I went directly on the stick for 5 seconds. Could it be that I'm just stressing myself out too much & that is why I haven't started? Stress is not a new thing for me, and never have I stressed myself so much that AF was late. Any ideas? I'm ok either way...if we are prego that is wonderful! But if not, then I'm not going to be upset, b/c I never expected it to happen this quickly....we'll just keep trying, & that's the fun part! It's just the not knowing that is making me crazy insane!

Can anyone give me some words of wisdom? Do I just keep waiting? Or should I continue to test?

By the way.....I always have PMS symptoms, backache, cramps & I get a headache that starts on the day before AF that always ends up being a full blown migraine on Thursday. So far.....not a single symptom! And no migraine!!! This may be the first time in 6 years that I haven't had one!! That's got to mean something, right?

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Registered: 06-02-2006
Thu, 03-29-2007 - 1:29pm

hi

well i was right there with you this morning.. but unfortunately my af came later in the morning after i posted my message.. im super upset but hey what cani do but try again... im going to go see my obgyn to make sure that im ok and there are no underlying problems.. so we will see what happens.. i wish the best for you and i hope you are preg. keep me informed.

melissa