I'm still here...

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Registered: 07-17-2006
I'm still here...
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Mon, 07-24-2006 - 4:56pm

Okay, so I've waited yet another week, and still no AF. Technically I'm at CD43, but my cycle's so screwed one would never know. I've tested three times, none with FMU (almost like I'm purposely avoiding that time). All BFN. I'm going to wait a few more days, I guess. I can't tell if the symptoms have gone away or if I've learned to cope. I was naseous this morning before I got out of bed, and I have a headache pretty much all day long. It's not a long headache, just like something got thrown off. A woozy kinda headache. I ate a can of cinnamin rolls the other night. Eight pastries to myself!! I'm appalled at the thought. TMI Warning - I'm having strange bm's too. My bbs looked swollen the other day, and kinda pang inside, too. I have mild cramping pretty much throughout the day, but no AF. Thing is, I don't really sense her coming. Around Thur or Fri last week I had really strong cramps which woulda been my warning, but it's seems as if nothing got through. I get slight itches in my nipples every so often, but ... I don't know.

Someone talk to me. I'm over here going stir crazy.

BTW, the father is a friend from high school. I haven't been able to discuss this with him. I didn't want to bring it up until I was sure, but something in my body is telling me I am. Couple of questions for you guys. Should I even let him know there's a possibility or wait until I know for sure (BFP)? We're not in a "relationship" as some would say, but he's pretty much been there through and through.

I've always loved children and have wanted my own, so this would be a blessing even without the fairytale beginning. How does he feel? Well, let's just say it's nothing I can't handle.

Ladies, I am just waiting for a BFP to come through. I knew I was wrong for testing this afternoon, too. I collected my urine in a cup and it was light yellow. TMI (sorry). That's another thing. I always have to goooooo!!!

Is there anyone who can relate?

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Registered: 03-21-2006
Mon, 07-24-2006 - 7:50pm

You do want to try an catch the AM urine, but as long as it looks like a dk yellow it should work. CD43 sounds like you may be pregnant or you could have been spotting and not thought it was your period. Which is what happened to me, we had to change my DD 3 weeks back because it was a period and not spotting!

I, personally, would wait to tell the potential father. Because, yes he has a right to know, but you dont know anything right now. It will stress him and you out and cause more frustration. If you know from a +HPK that you are then you can sit down with him and discuss your plan. And if your not, then no harm no foul.

Good luck!






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Registered: 07-25-2006
Tue, 07-25-2006 - 1:26am
i am about 2 weeks late and i have taked 4 test and have been told it can be up to 45 days late before u get a + test result with some test i have also had the got to go RIGHT NOW fillings
best of luck
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Registered: 07-17-2006
Tue, 07-25-2006 - 9:33am

Hi ladies. Thank you for your input. I guess AF started this morning, so no more testing for me. Good luck to all the ladies here waiting to see if they conceived. That's it for me.

Peace, Blessings, and Baby Dust to you all!
Nia

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