Its ONE month from my 21st bday!

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Registered: 04-06-2005
Its ONE month from my 21st bday!
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Mon, 03-05-2007 - 2:30pm
and i didnt get AF at all in feb. now were almost done with the first week of march and still nothing! the last time it did come was mid jan. its happen before where it would be a few days late but never just NOT come AT ALL! im kinda freakin out here. my 21st birthday is a month away, ive been counting down the days to it and now i think i might be pregnant. i want to take a test but im scared to find out if it does say positive cuz then i have to actually deal with it, but of course i dont want to go on not knowing....i dont know what im gonna do!

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Registered: 11-06-2006
Tue, 03-06-2007 - 12:06pm

Hello,


The only way to know IS to test. If you are pregnant, you have

TTC to conceive #1 officially since 2001. Dh had Varicocele surgery 2005 and has low sperm count. Dh tried Clomid..it didnt really help, HSG in 1999 and 2005, Charting since Jan 2006, <

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Registered: 04-06-2005
Tue, 03-06-2007 - 10:26pm
yea i know, im going to test on thursday. ive already stopped drinking since i know its a possibility...as the days go on and theres still no sign of AF i know the odds are pretty much against me and i know in my heart that i probably am but hey maybe theres some other miracle explanation to this all lol. thanks! ill keep you posted of course.
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Registered: 11-06-2006
Wed, 03-07-2007 - 3:26am

Hello,


It could be hormonal too. When I was your age I went two months without a period without any real explanation. THe only thing I think

TTC to conceive #1 officially since 2001. Dh had Varicocele surgery 2005 and has low sperm count. Dh tried Clomid..it didnt really help, HSG in 1999 and 2005, Charting since Jan 2006, <

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Registered: 04-06-2005
Wed, 03-07-2007 - 12:17pm
i havent been doing anything differently lately and ive been hearing the stress thing, but i dont think i am that stressed. up to now things have been pretty good. even at times when ive been under a lot of stress ive never completely missed a period. maybe a few days off but never just completely missed it. but i guess well find out tomorrow why!!
as for if i am pregnant...well its mine (and the guys) own dumb fault for not being careful and i think for me the responsible thing to do is to keep it. I know my family would support me 100% and yea i can imagine it will be difficult but im the one who made the mistake so i should be responsible for my actions...thats just what i think about me tho, like you said there are some people that making the decision not to keep it is the right thing to do. but for me i know its not. as for the daddy...i really dont know what he would say. when i warned him it was a possibility his reaction was "WHAT, i cant have a kid!" but after that he calmed down and didnt really say much else. im gonna try and talk to him tonight so that way either way the test turns out i know where he stands on the situation and hopefully it will be a little less nerve racking! thanks!
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Registered: 11-06-2006
Wed, 03-07-2007 - 1:23pm

Hello,


That is great that you will have family that will support you and

TTC to conceive #1 officially since 2001. Dh had Varicocele surgery 2005 and has low sperm count. Dh tried Clomid..it didnt really help, HSG in 1999 and 2005, Charting since Jan 2006, <

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Registered: 04-06-2005
Wed, 03-07-2007 - 10:02pm
i tried yesterday to call the guy to talk to him and see where he stands if i am pregnant and he didnt answer and he didnt answer my text message but it was late and hes in navy seal training so he has to wake up REALLY early in the mornings so i figured he was in bed already. so i tried again today like 3 times, NO ANSWER! im starting to worry hes trying to avoid the situation. i really hope im wrong about it but i dont know what else im supposed to think if he cant even take 2 sec. to atleast text me and say hes busy but well talk soon or something along those lines! i finally just text him saying that im finding out tomorrow and that its already tough enough without him not talking to me i just wanna know where he stands on everything...so hopefully hes not being an JERK and he has a good explanation but im so worried right now!!
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Registered: 11-06-2006
Thu, 03-08-2007 - 3:47am

Hello,


I am soooo sorry you have to deal with a guy like this.

TTC to conceive #1 officially since 2001. Dh had Varicocele surgery 2005 and has low sperm count. Dh tried Clomid..it didnt really help, HSG in 1999 and 2005, Charting since Jan 2006, <

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Registered: 02-12-2007
Thu, 03-08-2007 - 7:39am

Hey,

I made it a little late into the game but I just wanted to say good luck, and I hope you find some answers today.

Please keep us posted!!

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Registered: 03-13-2006
Thu, 03-08-2007 - 10:42am

Hi. I am here b/c I think I am pregnant too, but I wanted to tell you that I found out I was preggo w/ My dd a month before my 21st and at the time I was bummed cause like you I was counting down the days.

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Registered: 04-06-2005
Thu, 03-08-2007 - 12:49pm
well i did end up talking to the guy last night, he came to my house, it was his idea. so he really was just busy but anyway thats besides the point now...i took a test and it said "NOT PREGNANT" !! i am SOOOOO relieved.im sure i would have been happy in the long run either way it turned out but i am happy that i dont have to figure out a way to tell my parents!!lol. my grandma had my mom when she was 21, my mom had my brother when she was 21, they really dont want me keeping that tradition alive lol. well thanks for everything youve all said to me..this was the scariest month of my life....

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