kind of sad

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Registered: 07-01-2005
kind of sad
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Sun, 01-28-2007 - 12:35am

I had started natural family planning charting this cycle without any bcp. i messed up my charting and had sex around my fertile time and i was getting used to the idea that i might be pregnant. i even had some symptoms: nausea, sore boobs, headaches, more tired than usual, moody and I still have them. I know it wouldnt have been planned or anything but it would have been wanted. we were planning on having another one after i was done with school and everything this summer and found a job. now i find myself almost in tears because I started spotting and cramping today. my usual cycle before i had an iud and then the pills was severe almost dibilitating cramps and a very heavy flow but today its just mild annoying cramps and spotting. I guess i just needed to vent this to someone other than my fiance because i dont really want him to know that im upset about not being pregnant. Thanks for listening/reading.

Angela

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Registered: 07-12-2006
In reply to: cljsjuliet
Sun, 01-28-2007 - 9:13am

Angela,


I know exactlly how you feel. AND it is ok to come here and vent. When I thought I might have been PG back in May we would have wanted it and we weren't planning. I had just lost my job and money had got extreamlly tight. I was so destroyed and heart broken when I found that I wasn't. I tried to stay strong in front of my DH but deep down he knew. We had a long talk in bed one night and it was a real eye opener. We ended up deciding we were going to TTC, It took us 5 mths of activelly trying to get this PG, plus during this time we ended up finding out DH has a serious health problem. Maybe if you tried talking to your SO you could be suprised on how things turn out. I was. I hope everything works out the way you want.


Tons of HUGGS!!!!!!!!

Katie

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Katie

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Registered: 08-02-2006
In reply to: cljsjuliet
Sun, 01-28-2007 - 12:57pm
Hey Angela... I'm sorry you're upset. It's so heartbreaking to get your hopes up for pregnacy only to have it not happen, regardless of whether you were actively trying to or not. But like the pp said, it might be helpful to talk to your fiance. You'd be surprised how supportive they can be...usualy when you're least expecting it. Good luck, and please feel free to always come here to vent. That's what we're here for... :)


~Robin


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~Robin

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In reply to: cljsjuliet
Mon, 01-29-2007 - 12:20am
we did talk tonight and hes sad that im not but yet happy im not because there is so much we need to do. i need to finish school and find a job, we need to start planning our wedding October 11, 2008, we want to buy a house. hopefully my sister gets pregnant soon though she deserves it, shes been trying for about 6 or 7 years.

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