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| Sun, 01-28-2007 - 12:35am |
I had started natural family planning charting this cycle without any bcp. i messed up my charting and had sex around my fertile time and i was getting used to the idea that i might be pregnant. i even had some symptoms: nausea, sore boobs, headaches, more tired than usual, moody and I still have them. I know it wouldnt have been planned or anything but it would have been wanted. we were planning on having another one after i was done with school and everything this summer and found a job. now i find myself almost in tears because I started spotting and cramping today. my usual cycle before i had an iud and then the pills was severe almost dibilitating cramps and a very heavy flow but today its just mild annoying cramps and spotting. I guess i just needed to vent this to someone other than my fiance because i dont really want him to know that im upset about not being pregnant. Thanks for listening/reading.
Angela


Angela,
I know exactlly how you feel. AND it is ok to come here and vent. When I thought I might have been PG back in May we would have wanted it and we weren't planning. I had just lost my job and money had got extreamlly tight. I was so destroyed and heart broken when I found that I wasn't. I tried to stay strong in front of my DH but deep down he knew. We had a long talk in bed one night and it was a real eye opener. We ended up deciding we were going to TTC, It took us 5 mths of activelly trying to get this PG, plus during this time we ended up finding out DH has a serious health problem. Maybe if you tried talking to your SO you could be suprised on how things turn out. I was. I hope everything works out the way you want.
Tons of HUGGS!!!!!!!!
Katie
Katie
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