kristy8503 How are you????

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kristy8503 How are you????
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Sat, 11-08-2003 - 10:58am
just wondering if you ever retested or did the AF find you??

Jackie

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Wed, 11-12-2003 - 11:00am
i dont know jackiee, later this morning i started to spot. i still dont need to wear a pad or anything. i am still having lower back aches, slight cramping all of the same this past few weeks but now the spotting has thrown me off. last night i felt like i wanted to get sick but i just couldnt. i ended up getting out of bed at 1030 to eat and then i wanted to get sick again. but what is this spotting.
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Wed, 11-12-2003 - 11:14am
I have been told that one of the Early Symptoms of pregancy is Spotting/Implantation Bleeding. This can start right around the time you should have your period. This may be what you are experiencing. Have you tried to take a test yet?
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Wed, 11-12-2003 - 2:07pm
When should you have started your period?? i would just take a test if I were you..can you afford to buy a test? If you can just take one and get it over with. How many months were you on the pill?? And how many did you miss?

jackie

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Thu, 11-13-2003 - 8:05am
Kristy did you test the am??


jackie

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Thu, 11-13-2003 - 8:09pm
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Mon, 11-17-2003 - 8:12am
Jackiee-

Sorry that I havent responded very fast. Well I started to spot on wed until friday. I was suppose to get my period on tuesday and it lasts until sunday. I missed all of my pills so I thought I was pregnant. It didnt make sense so I weent to the doctor to ask him. Well I was pregnant but as beeing on birth control for almost three years and just missed the pills once I miscarried. I guess when I had slight cramping and then spotting I should of went sooner I might have been able to prevent it. But everyone told me that was a sign of pregnancy so I didnt. Anyways thanks for being there and best of luck to anyone who is trying.


Kristy

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Mon, 11-17-2003 - 10:09am
Kristy,

Sorry to hear that. You said the doctor told you that you had a miscarriage? Because you were on the Pill? I am sorry to hear that.. I had a miscarriage once too. I carried the baby for 17 weeks but it had died at 13 weeks. Are you going to attempt to get pregnant ? Did you ever start you period?

jackie

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Tue, 11-18-2003 - 9:55am
Jackiee-

it wasnt just the pill that did it. i guess that my body couldnt carry the baby and being on the pill for so long didnt help it. a couple days after i found out that i had miscarried i weent back to have my system cleaned out. i am just so heartbroken right now. my hand always falls to my tummy as a reflex and then i have to hold back the tears. no i still didnt get my period. so now im on a whole new pack and 3 weeks from now i should be getting it. probably in a few years we will try but right now its just not in me to give it another chance. so are you pregnant right now?
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Tue, 11-18-2003 - 3:13pm
No im not pregnant.. i have 2 beautiful boys and thatsenough for me.. The way that i looked at my miscarriage is " I wouldnt have the two boys that I have now" the baby I miscarried was VERY deformed. GOD was watching out for me... I wasnt ready for children then .. How old are you??

jackie

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Thu, 11-20-2003 - 10:52am
Jackiee-

Im 18 and this would of been my first. It upsets me only because the fact is it still was my baby and I cant get passed it. There are times that I think if I only took care of myself better maybe the baby would of made it but then again I think he or she wasnt strong enough and its better this way. I know that these things happen for a reason but why me? Ive taken vitamins and worked out and kept my body healthy since Ive been sexually active so I really dont know what I could have done any better. I know it will be a long time before I even think about trying to have another. Just because Ill be scared that this one wont make it.... I know people think that being 18 you are not ready. But I am. I have money in the bank enough to last me 2 years without having to work. Only because I worked my butt off since I was 13 and put every dime in the bank. I have my own place and doing school plus a job. My family so wanted a baby and they would of been there for me. Its been so long since weve had a little one that it not only affects me but my family as well. My boyfriend well it doesnt affect him. He thinks that we werent ready anyways and it wasnt a "baby" yet, I dont care it still was a baby to me the day it was conceived. How does a person get passed this?

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