Miscariage? Please i Need Adivce :(

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Registered: 04-14-2003
Miscariage? Please i Need Adivce :(
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Sun, 08-17-2003 - 5:28pm
Hello everyone, Well my period came she was too days late, i have had her for 3days now and she has been very light not like usally she is usally heavy flow and i have'nt seen that yet, and i dont think i will anyways, like i said she has been light but a dark red color now early i had about three blod clots when i wiped too were small and one was big about the size of my finger nail on my pinky. I ahd all the sypmtoms of pregnancy peeing alot, senative bbs, headachs, and backachs, mild cramping, well i have the worst backachs ever with this light period, i can't even change my daughter or son wothout it hurting i'll sit on the couch to change him or on the floor and just that little of bending over my back hurts so much, the only other thing is i have headachs still. Could it have been? i went to the doctor july 16 for a pap and everything was normal im healthy Oh and my breast are leaking but i don't have breast cancer cause they checked for that too.

Summer

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Registered: 05-08-2003
Sun, 08-17-2003 - 8:04pm
Well...the first thing I think of is maybe a bladder or kidney infection if you're peeing a lot and having backaches? But I'm no doctor so you should always check with them. All you have to do is give them a urine sample to find that out. I did have a miscarriage a week after testing positive w/ an hpt (very faint positive) but the bleeding from a miscarriage (mine was anyway) was extremely heavy. It was heavier than ever before and was very bad cramping. It's often easy to create symptoms thinking that we're pg too if we're really not. I guess it's our minds teasing us since we want it so badly. Not to say yours weren't real, but all of those symptoms also occur from AF as well. So I hope your back starts feeling better soon and that the next cycle you get a BFP!

Heather

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Registered: 06-15-2003
Sun, 08-17-2003 - 8:48pm
hi! i'm sorry you're in pain. i too miscarried very early on and had a VERY heavy period with clots and lots of blood. it lasted for 7 days and it hurt!! dh and i barely even knew i was pregnant. we had a faint positive and then a week later AF arrived with force! my doctor called it a "chemical pregnancy". the egg didn't implant properly. she said not to worry at all. they're pretty common. i hope this helps you!! don't get discouraged. i know it's hard, but we have to keep in mind that this can be a long journey. best of luck to you!!
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Registered: 04-14-2003
Sun, 08-17-2003 - 9:50pm
Hi, Well my period stoped, It was only 3days long? And my back is still killing me and not to long ago i had the worst headach (migrain) ever. Well its still there but i don't need anything like a pad its so light.Well i'm going to call my doctor on monday and see what she says.

Summer

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Registered: 08-12-2003
Sun, 08-17-2003 - 10:01pm
Hi Summer ! I had to tell you I have had 3 mcs very early along and I bleed bad with 2 and the last one 1 day of bleeding and 3 days of spotting ! I hope you get your answer soon .


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