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need advice on baby making lol
| Sat, 09-27-2003 - 4:37am |
Ok. This is probably gonna sound really dumb but work with me here. I have always been a very depressed and self-concious person. I am only 21, almost 22, and have been with my boyfriend for a little while now. We just recently started having unprotected sex and the thing is, I want a baby. Badly. I tried with my ex and could never get pregnant. I have also had some other relationships where there was no protection used and I never got pregnant either. I have almost convinced myself that I cant have children. My boyfriend has no problems with me getting pregnant, he said he would be happy. I would be a very good mother, I basically raised my two godkids, and I am awesome with them. Do I sound totally selfish for wanting a baby so bad? My period is not due for another week to 2 weeks, so I wont know for a little while. If I am not, any suggestions on how I can help it along a little bit? I really want a baby and I feel like totally giving up. I go to bed at night praying I am pregnant. Please help with some words of advice for me. Thank you.

Hope some of this helps.
Tammy
Princess,
What am I having?
hth
Traci
Traci & Roger
Jordan James born April 10th at 4:09pm
Okay now to my lecture : ) Please make sure this is what you and SO want. My DH and I waited until we had been married two years, each had good jobs, and we had a house. We didn't want to bring a child into the world if we couldn't fully support it. I know you have heard this a million times before, but babies are sooooo expensive!! My daughter isn't even here yet and I cannot tell you how much we've spent!! So I guess all I am saying is please think out your decision. My DH and I made a list of all the pros and cons of having a baby at this time...perhaps you and your SO could do this well. I wish you the best of luck and let me know if I can answer any questions for you!!!
Love,
Caroline
edd 11/19 with Baby #1....Anastasia Katherine