need advice badly

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Registered: 08-27-2003
need advice badly
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Thu, 10-09-2003 - 3:13pm
Hey ladies,

I am in dire need of some opinions here. My LMP was Sept 12, I ovulated around the 23-25. On the 24 we were having sex and he didn't quite pull out in time (sorry if TMI). Anyway on Oct 2 after we had sex I went to the washroom and there was a little bit of watery blood on it. I thought it was from the sex but the next day there was a liitle bit of really light spotting and then it was done. Af was due yesterday morning Oct 8 (i always get it in the morning) and still nothing today. I have mild cramps like it may start, but the thing is I am never late. Also for the last several days my breasts have been a little sore, my boyfriend says they are a little bigger. To me they feel a little heavier and my nipples are slightly tender/sensitive when touched or rubbed. Sorry for going on, but I would like to know what you all think. thanks

Sara

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Registered: 10-05-2003
Thu, 10-09-2003 - 3:18pm
hey gray eyes...my LMP was 9/15...so i'm waiting to see too i ovulated 29th-1st...i have heavier breasts, no cramping yet or spotting...i'm trying to be patient to test later this week...but it is a big chance that you are pregnant...have you decided if you're going to test just yet?
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Thu, 10-09-2003 - 4:39pm
I'm not too sure when I am going to test. I really want to but I am also very nervous. This wasn't planned so it would be a huge life change for me. I mean I am old enough (24) and we are both financially able to support a child, but wow this would be a shocker. Deep down I know that I am at that point in my life where I will be happy with a positive But I know my boyfriend is not quite there yet. Oh well I guess he'll have 9 mnths to get there LOL. When are you testing?
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Thu, 10-09-2003 - 5:12pm
yeah i know what you mean...i'm nervous too....i guess because i want the test to be positive...i'm only 21 my guy is going to be 25 in december and this will be his first as well....we both thought that we couldn't have kids and we ended up getting pregnant before, but i was not thinking and decided not to have it...that was about a yr ago...now i really want a baby....hoping i am...i'm trying to hold out until the 15th to test, but i'm about to let him know that i want to test today...but your BF has 9 mths like you said to get adjusted...is this his first? if so, then he might be excited about the new bundle of joy....you want to test together???
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Thu, 10-09-2003 - 5:51pm
I would think that you are pregnant, I know that once you take that test it will just say either what you want to see or are just scared to see, So you just wait and hope to get your af but just Take it not an ept they suck. Clear blue is better from what I have seen. I am in the same boat as you my lmp was sept 15th, and I am due the 10th only 26 days in mine. I don't want to be pregnant(well we were not tring) because I have a one and a half year old and we wanted to have them spaced more. If I am though It will be scary but We will work it out, I think I will really behappy. Well good luck I hope that everything works out the way you want it too.
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Thu, 10-09-2003 - 6:00pm
so when do you plan on testing...? have you been having symptoms also since it is due on tomorrow for you...?