Need ur opinion on this...HELP

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Registered: 10-10-2005
Need ur opinion on this...HELP
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Tue, 03-11-2008 - 10:11pm
Hello! It has been a LONG time since I have posted in here really but my hubby and I had come to find out that he was sterile so I really had no reason to post in here but hubby and I have gone our separate ways...not bc of the sterile thing...for OTHER reasons on my half of things. Anyways, we are in the process of divorcing and I have moved on. I love my BF VERY VERY much....he is an amazing man. Anyways, we are not preventing or trying in the baby department. We just had the convo that if my mom had thought in the manner that he does about having kids...I would have never been born...since then he stopped using protection. We are both faithful and I trust him whole-heartedly, we have both been tested for STD's so we know we are both clean. Anyways, this is my situation...My LMP was January 13th, according to mymonthlycycles, I should have ovulated February 14th based on my average cycle of 42 days. I had spotting off and on around February 17th so I am assuming it was close to that area. Anyways, we have a healthy sex life with no protection. For the past month I have had headaches and dizzy spells off and on. Starting about 4-5 days ago, I had sore ribs below my boobs on both sides...same spot. That day or the following day or so I noticed my nipples..just my nipples were tender...they still are...but now its the nipples and the small portion of areola around my nipples. They are less touchy when I touch them than if my bf does BUT when he does it REALLY turns me on even though they hurt. I have been extremely frisky the past few days...weird things turn me on and it has been pretty wet down there. My boobs do feel bigger sometimes not others...the shape has changed. I feel really bloatedand heavy in my lower tummy area. I am tired but its hard to sleep. And with as quick as tiredness comes in it lifts just as quickly. I have been cramping all week. My temp has been jumping up and down...higher than usual but it bobs from the lower spectrum to higher than back to lower. I tested on Saturday twice and both were neg...I was having symptoms at this point so I tested but both were -. Should I retest again? When? I am already late...could it be that I am one of those that doesn't show up as soon? I was taking B6 to help straighten out my AF's and stopped them about 2 or so weeks ago...would that affect my being late and all these symptoms? Does this sound familiar to any one else? Think I am preggo or is it something else? I NEED some sane ppl with sane answers...lol.
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Registered: 06-06-2001
Wed, 03-12-2008 - 9:28am
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