Not the right time

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-18-2003
Not the right time
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Thu, 11-29-2007 - 2:22pm

Hi everyone. I guess I am here more or less to just get some feedback. I have been married for about 6 months or so. My husband and I have been struggling. We are currently renting an apartment and our bills exceed our income. Lately I have been feeling really sick, I haven't had a late period yet. When
I told my husband this he is really unhappy that we could be having a baby, because times are so hard right now.

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Registered: 11-06-2006
Thu, 11-29-2007 - 2:48pm

Hello,


I dont really have any advice for you. I guess all you can do is wait to test. Its up to you if decide to keep it or not. You have plenty of reasons not to if you are not ready. Dont let anyone make the decision for you and your dh.


Keep us posted on the outcome of the test.


~Lisa


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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-24-2003
Thu, 11-29-2007 - 3:26pm
I know this is a tough situation!
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Registered: 04-18-2003
Thu, 11-29-2007 - 3:37pm
Thanks so much for the advice. Abortion is not an option for me. I think I just have this fairytale that I must have the big house, the dog and the picket fence before I can bring a child into this world. I should know by now that those things don't enhance the quality of ones life.