Oy..it cant be..can it?

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Registered: 10-17-2005
Oy..it cant be..can it?
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Wed, 10-10-2007 - 11:10pm

Hello..ok..before i start my story..please know that I am only slightly versed in the whole acronym DH, AF speak..LOL So I'm going to just type everything out in long form.


It's been about 10 yrs since I was pregnant, I have a nine year old, so this is pretty much all new to me. So, there was a situation between myself and someone who I've always been just friends with, that turned into well..something more. Anywho, some things took place, only one time (so far;-) I'm 33 so I should know better..but when I checked the ole ovulation caledar online, after the fact..and making sure I wasnt ovulating.. turns out, the incident happened the highest day of my fertility. This probably wouldnt have bothered me if I didnt start cramping yesterday (three days after) even though my period isnt due for about two weeks. Also I'm not sure if my having fibroids on my uterus plays a part in a sensation that I'm feeling now. Almost as if my uterus is heavier. I'm sorry if I sound crazy, I feel crazy thinking I might be pregnant. But there are subtle things that are happening but I know..its just too soon even if I were pregnant. Please help me..these next two weeks are going to be a little difficult. I'm still having on and off cramps..Nothing as bad as actual period cramps..but enough that I notice them...thanks

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Registered: 10-04-2007
Sat, 10-13-2007 - 8:33am

Yes I am with you there. It's very maddening to read about all these women trying so hard to have a child and then there are mothers out there that shouldn't be mothers! The crampiness way before AF is crazy. I took a test this morning, still says negative, still 3-5 days away from AF coming so I still have to wait some more. I took it because I have a bad cold right now and will not take any medicine...just in case. Had a couple of sharp pains last night in bed and breasts hurt more today. Which is not normal for me before AF comes. With my son I didnt test until after AF didnt show up and he was planned. I was 29 and the only symptom i can remember is very sore breasts.


Well hugs to you - i'm in the circle with you -I believe also that whatever happens is meant to be.

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Registered: 10-17-2005
Sat, 10-13-2007 - 10:55am

Hopefully we'll both be blessed enough to join the club called "my oldest child is almost old enough to babysit my youngest child"LOL


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Registered: 10-13-2007
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 9:41am

LOL @ "my oldest child is almost old enough to babysit my youngest child" club. Heck I'm old enough to be part of the "Grandmother's club" with a 19 year old ... thank the Lord he is "abstinate" ... and placing college 1st before marriage!


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