PLEASE HELP SCARED 16YR OLD
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PLEASE HELP SCARED 16YR OLD
| Fri, 09-12-2003 - 7:49pm |
Please help me!! 1 week ago i performed a hand job on my boyfriend and im worried that i may be pregnant due to sperm getting into me somehow. i have had irregular periods for about 2 years with it being normal for me to not get my period for 6 months. how can i tell if i am pregnant? if you are trying to convieve do u do have sex when u have your period? i have heard that sperm only survive for 2 seconds once being ejactulated-is this true? please help me - ill appreciate it very much.

Good luck to you,
Ledera
You are least likely to get pregnant on your period. This doesn't mean it can't happen but your chances are small. Also if you are extremely irregular then there is no sure fire way of telling when you will ovulate so technichally no time of the month is a safe time to have unprotected sex, you need to practice commen sense honey if you don't want to end up pregnant or worse with an STD that could render you infertile (unable to have children at all) or on your death bed.
If the sperm only got on your hand then I am certain you are not pregnant, but before something like this happens again you and your boyfriend need to sit down together and discuss safe sex and preventing pregnancy, because I am sure you nor he wants a child right now. Good Luck.
Tasha
PS. Here are a few links to get you started.
http://www.scarleteen.com/
http://www.positive.org/Home/index.html
http://www.sxetc.org/
Edited 9/12/2003 8:17:36 PM ET by circumstance