Please Please Advice

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Registered: 12-26-2005
Please Please Advice
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Sat, 07-15-2006 - 6:14am

Hi:

I have been trying to conceive for 3 years now... got all the test like HSG, Lap done. After Laproscopy Doc said everything is normal and try normally for 6 months... now after 8 months i have missed by periods by 2 days (Periods are very regular like a clock.. 26th day is when it arrives).. I am feeling nausea mid morning and after lunch and dinner for about a week now and have sever period like back pain and cramps sometimes, I feel very bloated as well... Am I pregnant? Do you think i should get a home test done or is it too early? My friend asked me to wait for a week and then take the test... but i am so anxious that i just cannot wait... My aunt says that sometimes if you get too anxious, you might get your periods... Is it true.. My hb however says that I might be just imagining everything, nausea and other feeling might just be psychological... he is too tired of the whole process for 3 years and has kind a given up on everything. This is making me more depressed and i feel like crying all the time. I am so confused, depressed, anxious and ofcourse praying... Please advice what i do... Did any of you face similar situation and got your periods?

Please Please pray for me...

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Registered: 01-09-2004
Sat, 07-15-2006 - 3:48pm

Hi Hakunamatata,

You maybe pregnant, for me and my partner, we sorta just gave up (well, I gave up) and now I am 7 weeks pregnant. You can take a test, I took mine after 3 days late and it was positive, but I didn't feel nausea, just the same feeling, cramping and back pain, and one thing that made me notice I might be pregnant, was my breast getting bigger and tender. You will know when your breast wont stop hurting. :)

I hope this helps. Good luck!

Fuyukoly

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Registered: 01-17-2006
Sat, 07-15-2006 - 4:06pm
I say grab a few dollor store test .That way you wont be wasting to much money .I tryed for 2 years and the month I didnt think about it at all I got pg. Good luck make sure you tell us the out come. :-)
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Registered: 12-26-2005
Mon, 07-17-2006 - 2:29am

Hi:

Thanks a ton for the advice. My breasts dont hurt at all but i think they are growing bigger. Hb and me decided that I will take the test next weekend so that we get proper positive result. Both of us are just scared to get a negative result. I just cannot tell how you excited i am about the whole thing and I just hope its positive.

I shall let you know abt the result :)

Cheers!!!

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Registered: 07-17-2006
Mon, 07-17-2006 - 10:28am
it's so easy to psych yourself into feeling pregnancy symptoms when you want to feel them so badly. One of my fist pregnancy symptoms was major cramping, it felt like my period was about to start any second. My cramps started 2 weeks before my period was due and lasted until I was about 5 weeks or 6 pregnant. I wish you the best of luck, and if you take a test and it comes back negative, keep trying every couple of days. I took 2 negative home tests before it came back with that wonderful plus sign!
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Registered: 12-26-2005
Tue, 07-18-2006 - 12:57am

Hi You are right... i have had the same feeling. I had cramps a week before start of my Af and its continuing a week after too... Only thing is i did not get AF though. Every time i go to the loo i get so scared that i might have got my periods. This morning its exactly one week i missed my periods and i took the test its NEGATIVE.. Its sooooo disheartening i just cannot stop tears since morning. I am still keeping my hopes up and best part is my hb still feels that i already look "Real Pregnant" and i think that is the best compliment i heard :) He is such a sweetheart and i definitely want a baby now with him. All that i can do now is pray and keep fingers crossed. I am not going to take a test untill Saturday now. Will keep you posted. Thanks a ton for giving me a hope.