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| Thu, 10-23-2003 - 5:19pm |
what exactly are the chances of gettin pregnant if you have unprotected sex, but he doesn't come? ...i'm only 18 and my boyfriend and I are usually really good about always using a condom... but a couple times we didnt and we would just stop after a few minutes or something, because we always realize it's very risky but... just kept doing stupid things. i should've gotten my period like a day or two ago so it's still early, but there's similar symtoms to both: tender breasts, bloating and cramping, indigestion... and I'm just getting really scared. I don't know what to do or who to talk to... except I told him I'm worried. So... I guess I just need some advice or something... I dont know what to do at all........

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I think you should wait until your next period is overdue and test using a HPT. It is true that you can get pregnant even if he doesn't ejaculate inside of you.
The symptoms that you are experiencing can be a cause of AF coming soon, or it could maybe also be you are so worried that a lot of it is in your head. I'm not insinuating that you are crazy but some people get so worked up over it soon they are apparently experiencing every symptom in the book.
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But am also a mom of an almost 9 year old. - A happy medium! I know that everything in your life seems like the end of the world. Have you taken a preg test? Does your college have a health center or benefits? You know that any"crisis pregnancy center" gives free preg. tests. Do not however go to a planned parenthood type place. Why do you think your Mom wouldn't understand? How is your b/f handling this? (his family?) It is such a difficult time in your life anyway. It is important to surround yourself with people that are good for you and make you feel special. Please try to think clearly and it is a good idea to be on this web site with older women that you can learn from. please keep in touch. thinking about you. alex
I am also a young mom. I got pregnant with my daughter right after my 21st birthday and she is now 6. I understand how scary an unplanned pregnancy can be. I was terrified of telling my mom, but when I did she was so supportive. I didn't realize how much I needed her. As a mom there is nothing my daughter could do to make me not love her and I'm sure your mom feels the same way. You are in my prayers and I hope you keep us posted.
Christy
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