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Registered: 10-23-2003
scared
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Thu, 10-23-2003 - 5:19pm
what exactly are the chances of gettin pregnant if you have unprotected sex, but he doesn't come? ...i'm only 18 and my boyfriend and I are usually really good about always using a condom... but a couple times we didnt and we would just stop after a few minutes or something, because we always realize it's very risky but... just kept doing stupid things. i should've gotten my period like a day or two ago so it's still early, but there's similar symtoms to both: tender breasts, bloating and cramping, indigestion... and I'm just getting really scared. I don't know what to do or who to talk to... except I told him I'm worried. So... I guess I just need some advice or something... I dont know what to do at all........

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Registered: 10-21-2003
In reply to: lifeiscrazyasusual
Fri, 10-24-2003 - 8:13am
Sarah, this is alex again. I am thinking about you today. Please let us know.
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Registered: 10-23-2003
In reply to: lifeiscrazyasusual
Fri, 10-24-2003 - 1:24pm
thanks. i'm going to get the test today...

seriously, god help me, i dont know if i can handle this right now...

-sarah
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Registered: 10-21-2003
In reply to: lifeiscrazyasusual
Fri, 10-24-2003 - 2:21pm
you can handle it.alex
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Registered: 08-13-2003
In reply to: lifeiscrazyasusual
Fri, 10-24-2003 - 3:16pm
Sarah,

Just remember that whatever God asks you to lift, He gives you the strength to carry. You will be just fine either way...

Kimmie
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Registered: 10-23-2003
In reply to: lifeiscrazyasusual
Fri, 10-24-2003 - 3:34pm
so... THANK YOU GOD just about sums it up. and thank you to everyone that responded here too. I'm so relieved... and WOW! have I ever learned a lesson. Just being really thankful today...

-Sarah
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Registered: 10-21-2003
In reply to: lifeiscrazyasusual
Fri, 10-24-2003 - 4:44pm
Sarah,I am so glad about your news. I know how relieved you and you boyfriend must be. Remember the decisions you make now are crucial in determining the rest of your life. And I am sure you have an idea how you want your life to turn out. You seem like such a great girl, best of everything to you. alex
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Registered: 10-24-2003
In reply to: lifeiscrazyasusual
Fri, 10-24-2003 - 4:49pm
are you sure he didnt come? some men do lie about that because it feells good, and they dont wanna stop. my friend got pregnant in a situation like that.
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Registered: 04-25-2003
In reply to: lifeiscrazyasusual
Sat, 10-25-2003 - 8:16pm
hey hun, don't be too scared...it's not likely...not impossible...but just not likely...take a look at all these other posts...full of women, like myself, who have realized that getting pregnant is a lot harder than Mom always told us...If you are pregnant, then I'd say you have a complete miracle!...Anyways, don't worry too much about it...But I guess let this be a lesson...

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Registered: 10-23-2003
In reply to: lifeiscrazyasusual
Sun, 10-26-2003 - 12:01am
Thanks Alex... I've definitely learned a big lesson from this. Even though we were both completely scared out of our minds it also helped us realize how much we are so completely in love with one another... and I'm just so thankful things worked out like they did. I know that in my future I would love to have kids... but you're right. I do have a lot of things I'd like to do with my life and then one day, when I'm all ready, I'll come back and be completely happy to have a little miracle like that. ...Just not now ;) so thanks everyone once again. *sigh* College years are crazy... as usual

Love and Happiness, Always,

Sarah
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Registered: 10-21-2003
In reply to: lifeiscrazyasusual
Sun, 10-26-2003 - 9:09pm
Thanks for the thanks. maybe our paths will cross again.alex

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