she has lied to me about birthcontrol..

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-07-2011
she has lied to me about birthcontrol..
Mon, 11-07-2011 - 12:43am
Her period begins very early in the month, i know becuase ive been with her for awhile. it usually starts on the 1st or the 6th, she usually bleeds very little before it starts, then it lasts for a few days. during sex, I came in her last month on the 12th, the 19th, and in the mid 20's, i forgot but i didnt feel like pulling out on those days. I dont know when a girl ovulation starts, but i do know they make that milkey white stuff, that has no smell (def not a yeast infection). but i believe she has lied to me in order to tie me down from joining the airforce! its the 6th, she has had NO period, no signs of one either. one day , we were having sex, and there was faint bleeding, barely even noticable, like u could smell the iron like smell of the blood but the next day nothing... there are nights where she has these VERY bad stomach cramps, shes tired alot and has been having mood swings and headaches.
Community Leader
Registered: 07-07-2008
Mon, 11-07-2011 - 11:13am

So she told you she was on birth control, but she's not actually? Just so you know, there is no birth control that is 100% effective except for abstinence. Any other birth control method has some chance of failure. How likely the failure is will be based on many things (such as taking it properly and avoiding things that can interfere with it).