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| Thu, 11-13-2003 - 3:53pm |
Hi all,
I've been reviewing the posts and it's so great (but not!) to find ladies as confused as I am. I have two children, almost 4 and 2, and DH and I have been in "negotiations" for #3. I want a baby, he doesn't, so I told him he had to be responsible for BC from now on b/c I've been doing it for 12 years and enough's enough. He's been using condoms and there was "activity" during possible ovulation. I think period's due today, but for a week I've been having cramping/bloating, fatigue, nausea and tailbone pain. Plus backaches, but that and the tailbone could be related to a rollover accident I was in a month ago. Took a PT Monday (one that says you can take up to 4 days before AF). Negatory. The accident got me confused about my cycles, plus I went off the patch and this was the first month w/o. Bought a two pack, so plan to try again tomorrow if nothing's happened.
I've been reviewing the posts and it's so great (but not!) to find ladies as confused as I am. I have two children, almost 4 and 2, and DH and I have been in "negotiations" for #3. I want a baby, he doesn't, so I told him he had to be responsible for BC from now on b/c I've been doing it for 12 years and enough's enough. He's been using condoms and there was "activity" during possible ovulation. I think period's due today, but for a week I've been having cramping/bloating, fatigue, nausea and tailbone pain. Plus backaches, but that and the tailbone could be related to a rollover accident I was in a month ago. Took a PT Monday (one that says you can take up to 4 days before AF). Negatory. The accident got me confused about my cycles, plus I went off the patch and this was the first month w/o. Bought a two pack, so plan to try again tomorrow if nothing's happened.
I'm ambivalent about possibly being pregnant. I'm worried that my DH will flip, even though it's not like a made an "oops!" on him. I'm worried my body hasn't healed enough from my accident and that if this pain is like this early, what am I in for later. I'm also worried what I will do if I'm not pregnant. Anyway, it's just gratifying to know you all understand some of these issues.
Thanks and good luck to all
