Totally Scared!!! What do you think?

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Registered: 03-16-2007
Totally Scared!!! What do you think?
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Wed, 03-28-2007 - 6:05pm
I am totally scared with this not ready to be pregnant but there is a big possibility that during IC 4 weeks ago tomorrow his condom broke. Sooo... I've tests so many times since then b/c he is freaking out more than me and its not helping, lol. Anyways I took a test about 1 hr ago. I watched it and I could swear I saw two pink lines at first they were faded but only one got brighter and I left and came back 5 minutes later and the other one disapeared and the bright one sorta got big and fat to wherethe other was. Not realy fat, the two faded lines at first were really close to gether probably not even a cm or mm apart. What do you think I know I will test again in a couple days, and have not missed yet, Its due tomorrow but I have not had any of the signs I usually get the week before it starts and my breast have been hurting for the past week and they never hurt like this before. I'm scared and not sure if I sould tell my guy what about this or just blow it off until I test again. Any input, advice ect. would really be a big help and really appriciated right now. Thanks in advance.
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Registered: 03-16-2007
Wed, 03-28-2007 - 6:23pm

Well there is a high possibility that you are pegnant. Painful and swelling in the breasts are usually the first signs...at least those were my first signs. But I would wait until you get your period before you conclude anything. If you are late by a week then definatley take a test. Also a more accurate way to find out is to go to your doc. or a planned parenthood facility and have a blood test. They will usually be able to give you results that day. It is a scarry situation but it also has changed my life around for the better. I wouldn't trade my daughter for a thing.

Good Luck.

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Registered: 03-16-2007
Wed, 03-28-2007 - 7:16pm
Ok thanks. I already have a doc appointment from one week today if nothing happens by then I was going to get tested. I'm so afraid that made stress is going me make me miss b/c I've started stressing about this and if I miss b/c of that Its going to stress me the longer I have to wait. I know I would be scared at first but If I do end up preggo, It will be a blessing in disguise. Ya know, Everyone I've every known to have an unplanned child ended up saying the same you said that you wouldn't trade her for anything. I guess the only cure to this madness is time. And it kills me to have to wait and wait and wait some more.