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| Sun, 09-21-2003 - 11:56pm |
well after last months little wierd thing (so many preg. sypthms and not being preg.) we have decided to start trying anyways (I told my husband if by Dec. we're not we'll stop trying for awhile) anyways my only problem is my parents ---let me explain I'm 19, husband is 20 and he's in the Marines--- we've been married over a year (I turn 20 in Dec.) well my parents didn't want us to marry so young but we did anyways know they want us to wait till my schooling is done (but we've decided not to) they knew that I was having preg. sypthms b-4 I started my period, and then my dad's like start your pills (blah a day after I'd already started) so i told him I can't b/c I'm suposed to start them on the first day of my period----I guesee I want to know everyones input on this ---we are so ready for a baby but we are NOT telling my parents we're trying b/c I don't want to hear about my schooling is more important ---what would you guys do in my situation ?
Heather
P.S. I'm very close to my mom (it's mostly my dad that has the problem)

Proud Mommy to:
Skielynne--08-17-04
On the other hand, I do see you father's point of finishing school first. How much school do you have left? And of course he's not going to be completely happy with you wanting to have kids at 19/20... you are his little girl! I'm sure it's difficult for him to see you so grown up. But I'm also sure that no matter what you do, in the end he'll still love you and life goes on.
Do what you feel in your heart. Good luck!
-B
P.S. I'm not telling my parents about TTC #2 because they have difference of opinions.
Aimee
Mommy to Noah (Nov 6/04)
Emil
I think everyone is right we should just try and then after we are pregnant say guesse what? we're pregnant and they can live with it and deal---peoples goals do change that's for sure --my dream job is elementary teacher--but recently I noticed that's not what I want out of life ---my family is what I want ---I only have so many years to get preg. (about 20)hehehe(my mom and aunt are in their forties and had everything removed about 3-4 years ago) and after that I can spend my time working and /or going to school ----I don't know if any of this makes sense or not but either way----
I went to the doctor today and asked her if it was ok to try (I had an appointment b/c I just found out i'm pre-diebetic) she said it was ok and gave my pre-natel vitamins and calcium to take--- so hopefully we'll BD this and next week and be expecting in June (HOPEFULLY!)
SORRY THIS IS SO LONG!!!
Heather
Proud Mommy to:
Skielynne--08-17-04