Undecided and Unsure... :(
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| Wed, 07-05-2006 - 6:14pm |
Hey folks,
This seems like a great place to get feeedback and your thoughts! I found out last Monday that I am pregnant.
Basically, I am 32 and am not 100% sure where the relationship is going with the father. He is a great guy, but is working in another country for a year (he visits quite a bit though work related reasons) but we have been trying to figure things out recently so this was a totally unplanned thing.
Now, I am sitting on the fence as to what to do. I only have been at my job for a year (I was a prfessional student for quite some time, heh)and I love it. I make good money and JUST bought my own place by myself last month.
I just don't know that if we had it that we would be ok ourselves. I don't think that we would be and I am not interested in being a single mom (guy in question is very for the baby and I am not, so he would be there regardless, he is a great fellow in that regard )
Arrghh..... I just don't know what to do!!! I am about 5 weeks right now.
Any happy thoughts? Experiences? Comments???
Thank ladies!!
Me

Sorry you are having a tough time with this. I won't be able to say anything but encourage you to follow through with the pg at least. You have the option of adoption afterwards, of course. Also, if he is willing to be a single dad afterwards, there is that.
Monica
It's...TWINS!