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wats goin on w. me?
| Tue, 10-14-2003 - 10:21pm |
im still in my mid teen ...lets say OVER 13 but still under 18.....and i lost my virginity over the summer and since then my body well confusin...my period been kinda irrgeular....and recently...i had sex again...and lately..i been tired more than usual..it might be from school...but i dunno....i been experiencein some pain in my vagina area recently...i missed my period or did i? mine can come sometimes around the 5th or around the 27th.....my last one was on the 5th of sept..i hadnt gotten this's months period....and im sorry to say but i had been in engage in sexual activiny in the last couple of weeks....which is another problem...i know that if i tell my bf no he would back off w. no hestitation...but i find it hard to say no to him....no matter wat....another thing i gotta point out is that since we go different school i only get to see him bout once a week..and we cherish that day like its the last...we spend it talkin teasing playing forepalyin ...and then sex... is what im doin wrong or unhealthy in a way...is there a way i can learn to say no? am i preganet? wats goin on w. me?

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oh yea im supposed to meet up w. the baby's father tommorrow for a basketball game and possibly imma try to squeeze in that talk afterward...im kinda nervous... its kinda the first time i actually set my foot down on a subject...but hmmm im not positive bout wat to say yet....any suggestion?
I got kind of confused toward the end of your e-mail. Are you talking to your boyfriend today? If so, are you talking about the possible baby or about sex? Or, are you talking to your girl friend's boyfriend? What it is you're trying to talk to him about? His feelings at being a father?
You used alot of definate terms in this post (ie, when you said "my baby's father"). Did you get some news, or is that just one of those things?
Other than that, enjoy your basketball game. I hope everything goes great for you!
~Claire
oh and am i being parionad bout this...but is this pregancy synthom or they just common for this time of the year...ok lately i been kinda sick sore throat..feverish flu syndrome...i dont usually get sick during this time of year...so it makes more alert and caustious bout my health right now... im usually able to bear cold weather ( im in chicago) without gettin more than a runny nose that usually last for 48 hrs tops....but i been tired lately too ...that might be from school.. and i been goin to sleep extremly early ( round 8) and wakin up fairly late for me.... the only time i remeber this happenin ( extreme tireness) is two summer ago when i joined cheerleading and they practiced in the evening and there would be games every weekend ...causin me to wake up 5 -6 am and i wouldnt be home till 10 11 or somtime even 12 at night...... .. ...do i just need to take a couple days to recooperate myself back to health..or this is sign that my body's adjustin to a somthin to expect...have u been experiencin odd body health behaviors?
Talking to the maybe-baby's dad has got to be hard....my fiance new right away that something was up. As soon as I had my funny bleeding thing I called him and asked him how long it'd been since my last period (I thought I might have messed up on the count). He confimed when I thought my period had been, then the next day he asked me how I was fairing (I'm usually pretty miserable on the first full day of my cycle). I told him it had stopped and he asked what that meant. I told him then that it could have been implantation bleeding and what that means. Back to you, you said it'll be two weeks before you know if you're PG. Usually, that would mean (on the average) that you'd be ovulating about now. You also said in your first post that you'd either gotten your last period on the 5th or the 27th. Where those both in September or was the 5th in October? Are you still really irregular? Give me a run down, and maybe we can figure out if the timing is even anywhere near right.
When you talk to your bf be honest. Just tell him that you want him to know that there's a possibility and let him know that you trust and believe him (about him telling you that he'd take care of you and a baby) but also let him know that you just need to be reassured right now because you're scared. I actually had to do this just yesterday when my fiance was here. It's normal when you've not been trying to have a baby to be a little scared...especially if you're not married.
One more thing with your body...remember that stress does nutty things to it. It's important to take some deep breathes and take care of yourself. Maybe a lazy afternoon with a good book is in order, or a long bath....
You also mentioned that you're in Chicago...I'm from Grand Rapids and I'm at MSU right now... Small world
~Claire
as for the talk i guess its gonna get post pone...something came up and he wasnt able to make it today...he's on a church basketball team ( hes sorta religious ) and his coach makes them attend church service every sunday..i tried callin him but he had turn off his cell...
ur in mi? wow thats like a 2 -3 hrs drive from chi...wow it is a small world...
Anyways, sorry I couldn't get back to you sooner...I really did mean to. Today is my roommated birthday and her sister and the sister's boyfriend showed up during homework time to take us out yesterday. I've pretty much been going non-stop since then.
I'm getting really anxious for this week to keep going. I'm technically expecting myperiod tomorrow, but it'd be helpful if it didn't come till Monday... (My b-day is Saturday and I'm going to a Matchbox20 concert Sunday night.)
I'm trying really hard not to stress about my period...like I said, either way, we'll (the fiance and I) will be happy...
Anyways, keep me posted!
~Claire
~Claire
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