well, it's official...

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Registered: 07-30-2003
well, it's official...
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Fri, 08-15-2003 - 3:24pm


i miscarried. i just passed what would have been my baby... (saw a pic in a book, of what a 4 week eggsac looks like, and it was just like that, but grey)(sorry if TMI)

just thought i'd let you all know-

i decided to name the baby, to make it more final, i guess.

her name is Gabby~ 8-10-03. ^i^

bec

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Registered: 04-21-2003
Fri, 08-15-2003 - 3:28pm
I'm so sorry. Its just horrible to miscarry and no one ever knows what to say to you. I miscarried 4 weeks ago. Just try to keep positive thoughts in your head so you don't go crazy.
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Registered: 03-25-2003
Fri, 08-15-2003 - 3:38pm
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how precious little Gabby was to you--I've been there too. Take good care of yourself and let yourself grieve however you need to. *Hugs* and lots of prayers for you.

Andrea


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Registered: 04-11-2003
Fri, 08-15-2003 - 3:43pm
I am so very sorry for you loss. Will keep you in my prayers. Hugs. ~~Kris~

Best wishes,

Kris with Eliza (4), Adam (3) and Alex born 4/15 (edd 4/22)  

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Registered: 08-12-2003
Fri, 08-15-2003 - 3:57pm
I am very sorry beka. This is not an easy thing.

 
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Registered: 07-28-2003
Fri, 08-15-2003 - 4:41pm
Hi Bec,

So sorry about the m/c.You should remember its not your fault.I to have made it through a m/c but without knowing it wasn't my fault.It took my mom(after months of blaming myself) to tell me after I had finally told her what was wrong with me.

So keep your chin up sweetie.My prayers are with you.

((((((BIG HUGS)))))

Tracey

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Registered: 07-23-2003
Fri, 08-15-2003 - 5:03pm
Bec,

I'm so sorry to hear your news. I think you'll be glad you named the baby. It will be healing. I'll be praying for you.

Kate

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Registered: 08-04-2003
Fri, 08-15-2003 - 5:22pm
Bec and gabby

I am with you both today and please do not take any blame or pain for natures wrong doings. It is probably a sign that perhaps better things are to come. If you can understand that!

With you

Angie
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Registered: 05-15-2003
Fri, 08-15-2003 - 5:28pm
Bec,

I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your sweet Gabby are in my thoughts and prayers today. Peace to you.

Carol

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Registered: 08-09-2003
Fri, 08-15-2003 - 9:03pm
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I have gone through a loss also. You are in my prayers. Stay encouraged. And please remember IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT!

Robin