What in the world is going on?!

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Registered: 07-07-2003
What in the world is going on?!
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Thu, 11-06-2003 - 12:28pm
Ok, I need some of the wonderful wisdom all of you ladies have!!

I started AF on Halloween (kinda funny huh? lol) That is a full week earlier than I should've started. Well, it only lasted for 1 day (seemed regular to me tho, flow wise I mean). The following day, I had nothing! It wasn't even light. But then the day after that, I started spotting, not enuf for a pantyliner, but I could tell when I wiped (sorry tmi). I'm still spotting, it's much lighter, at least lighter than it started out as, and I've been having some mild cramps. Also, I noticed that my nipples seem more sensitive lately, I don't know if it's my bra or what. I would love to be pregnant, even tho the timing is off... but I don't really want to think about it too much, I'll get my hopes up, drive my hubby insane, and have it turn out another BFN. I guess I just have to wait and see if AF shows next month. But what if I'm one of those women, who bleeds shortly in the first few months...I don't want to mention anything to my husband yet, he knows how my cycle was, but I don't want to mention that I think I might be PG, I've done that a couple times, and they were all BFN. If I were to buy a test, and have it come up actually being BFP, what would I say to him? He'd be upset that I went behind his back and tested, instead of telling him about it. I just don't want to feel stupid when it comes out negative. Kinda like crying 'Wolf!'... all these times I think I might be PG, and then when I actually do get PG, will he believe me? lol It's such a crazy thing to be a women. :) We m/c last December, so I know we are both scared about that. We are not 'going all the way' now, but there was one time, right around when I 'think' I could've O'd, but since then, there haven't been any 'deposits'. Oh well, I just need someone to talk to! Thanks! Good luck to everyone else out there!!

Sincerely, Lauren

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Registered: 08-10-2003
Thu, 11-06-2003 - 1:58pm
Well I would try to not think about it too much, and if you get more symptoms or something, then test, otherwise it won't hurt to wait until next month. And about the fear of him getting mad if you test behind his back, I don't think he would. If you explained why you did it he should understand. Some might say you could have experienced implantation bleeding, buts its so hard to tell if thats it or not. Good Luck to you.
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Registered: 07-07-2003
Thu, 11-06-2003 - 10:18pm
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