What is wrong with me?!?!?!

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Registered: 07-31-2003
What is wrong with me?!?!?!
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Sat, 08-09-2003 - 3:29pm
My last period start june 11. Since then I have seen no AF! So far I have taken 4 HPT all NEGATIVES! Thankfully! But i still dont know what is going on! Is Af gonna come? Am I preg? Or is there something more serious wrong with me? Last year (2002) I got Af on June 11 and didnt see her again till July 31 but now what its way past then and im really worried about whats going on. I had sex twice inbetween the time of my last period and when i was supposed to get it once protected it the other time july 4th unprotected but only for like a min. with no ejaculation. so i really dont know what to do, i cant tell my mom she will kill me and i wont go to the doc. till i know im not preg. HeLP PLEASE!!!! Im driving myself crazey i leave for school aug 26 my tuition is already paid and i really dont think im preg but you never know! I dont know what to do... :'(
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Registered: 07-31-2003
Sat, 08-09-2003 - 3:45pm
Go to a planned parenthood, and have them do a pregnancy test. It sounds like you aren't, but just to be sure, you should go. My niece is 21 and pregnant, the faher, excuse my language is an idiot. This was unplanned, she HAD a great future in the army, but because of one night before she left for the army, she got pregnant, now she's living at home with her mom and dad, no job, no money, and an idiot for father of her baby. Back to you, your cycle may just be off. My girlfriend has the same problem w/ her period. Of course she's trying to get pregnant, so she's on clomid. Think about birth control pills, not only for safer sex, but it will regulate your period. AND USE A CONDOM :)

I hope I helped and didn't sound like a mom.

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Registered: 07-23-2003
Sat, 08-09-2003 - 4:18pm
FYI: pre-cum is something that seeps out of a guy's penis before he ejaculates. Its produced by the Cowper's gland and is meant to re-balance the ph level so that fewer sperm will die during the ejaculation. There is some semen in the pre-cum. Not a lot, but enough that some girls/women have become pregnant.

**SO, if you don't want to become pregnant it is very important NOT to have unprotected sex even if only for a minute.**

In addition to Planned Parenthood there is Birthright which offers free and confidential information if you think you may be pregnant. http://www.birthright.org/

Good Luck!

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Registered: 07-31-2003
Sun, 08-10-2003 - 12:49am
Thank you both very much I really appreciate that yous took the time to read my post and give some advice. what seems to be good is tonight at work i got pretty bad cramps like i some times get off and on a few days before my period starts or right before it starts so I'm keeping my fingers crossed! :) Ill post if (and when) AF Comes! Thanks So much again!