what's going on?????

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what's going on?????
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Mon, 11-10-2003 - 12:53am
I'm not sure what is going on with my body I posted about a week ago I was having all kind's of weird symptoms. My last af was 10/21 my symptoms were queezy stomach , sore bbs fatigue and cramps but for the last couple of day's I haven't really been getting any symptoms except for some cramps and gas (sorry) I usually don't experience any signs of O my af should be in 12 day's or so I took a hpt but it was (-) I really want to be pg my husband and I have been trying since 10/05 our wedding day. If any one has any info please let me know I would really like to talk to someone right now I haven't really told my husband anything yet I think it's bad enough that I might be dissapointed please HELP thank you for taking your time to read!!!!!

 

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Mon, 11-10-2003 - 1:11am
I know how you feel! I just posted to try to get some help. My last period was the 20th, and my usual pms symptoms are so different. I've been a little nauseated also, I just forgot to include that. I've had a small problem with gas like you, but also more discharge than usual. It is too soon for both of us to really know anything. When are you planning to take another hpt? I will probably take one at the end of the week.

I hope your trying has been successful!!

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Mon, 11-10-2003 - 1:21am
I think I will probally test on the the 18th with a early hpt I am going to go nuts waiting to find out. Oh ya I also have the discharge either we are , or god is messing with our heads all the symptoms sound like to pg to me but like I said mine have kinda faded the last couple of days it's really deppresing me but I'll just cross my fingers and pray for the best I'll do the same for you if you have any other questions I try my best to help you out GOOD LUCK BZ!!!!!

 

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Mon, 11-10-2003 - 1:29am
I am trying not to get my hopes up because I am on the pill so it shouldn't be a likely thing for me. It's silly...I didn't have pregnancy on my mind until my ex boyfriend told me he had kind of a dream or premonition type thing that told him I was pregnant. I don't tell people, but I was pregnant before, last year in the spring, with a period 2 months late and positive hpt but I never got a chance to go to the doctor because I miscarried. He had told me I was pregnant then also. I know I sound crazy to worry, but I just want to be careful.


Edited 11/10/2003 1:32:47 AM ET by xzanquionett
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Mon, 11-10-2003 - 1:38am
Just keep that in mind about your boyfriend men sometimes have a weird way of knowing things don't know how but they do try not to stress if you are you need to be stress free I know it's hard trust me I know but becuase of what happened to you before (SORRY) you need to try to stay relaxed as much as possible I try to keep my occupied by doing crafts or it usually ends up baking a cake or brownies or something I just made cookies a hour ago (haha) well I will be up so if you want to chat more!!

 

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Mon, 11-10-2003 - 2:01am
It was my ex that told me I'm pregnant. My current boyfriend doesn't know it's even a possibility. He's in California and I'm in North Carolina so he really doesn't have a way. My ex lives pretty far away also, but he was right before so I'm wondering now.

Something strange though...If I am pregnant, the baby will be born in the summer. A couple years ago I had a dream where I went through the last couple hours of my pregnancy, went into labor, woke up for a while and the dream continued at the time I took the baby home. What was so strange was that in the dream it was in the summer, and I was a couple years older. I've had dreams that kind of told the future before...

I'm not sure what to want at this point though. My boyfriend is military and I just went to visit him the 30th of October and left there November 3rd. Like I said, I don't want to get my hopes up, but I'm not sure about the situation. We're happy and planning to get married, it's just so soon. I'm only 18 so this is pretty scary. I am having the same feelings as last time and a couple more I didn't experience last time. It's just so soon to try to tell so my nerves are on edge but I'm staying calm and relaxed.

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Mon, 11-10-2003 - 2:19am
I already have a five year old son I got pregnant at 19 and had him at 20 so I definatley know how you feel. It's amazing how life works out my son has made my life 100% better I was so scared when I found out I was pregnant becuase I still lived with my parents I did not tell them untill I was 5 months along they are full catholic Irish I was afraid they would kick me ouy or disown me but they didn't they were upset not really mad I think they were more scared for me than anything but is turns out my son brought my family closer than ever my dad passed away in march so there again my son another blessing if it werern't for him my father would have never met any of his grandchildren he was his pried and joy ( he died from cancer) also it did not work out with my sons father but once again if it wasn't for my son I wouldn't have met my husband becuase I would have moved away . So there's apart of my life that you know god works in misterece (sp?) way's if it's meant to be it will so I believe I was blessed when I had my son and I hope to blessed again

 

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Mon, 11-10-2003 - 2:28am
I know my boyfriend would be happy after the initial shock of it all, as would I. If I'm pregnant I will be more than happy, and who knows, maybe God sees this as my time. I've never been a religious person, but there's something about pregnancy that brings it out in me. I remember being so angry I lost the baby, but then I looked at the time and situation and realized that it was more like being shown I can get pregnant, I just had to go through a painful thing to find out. I was told I could never even conceive. I kind of hope I am now, but then again it may not be the best time for me. I just hope for the best I suppose, either way things turn out.
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Mon, 11-10-2003 - 2:39am
Well what ever happens with you I hope for the best no matter what stay strong and keep your head held high lets chat again tomorrow I need to try to get some sleep I have to get my son up (cullen) for school in 5hrs make sure you let me know how you are doing when you log on just put my screen name in the subject and I will respond get some sleep chat to ya later:):):):)

 

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Mon, 11-10-2003 - 1:33pm
Someone answered my topic and told me they got pregnant on the pill...it's looking more and more likely as each day passes.

We both need to get some definite answers!! This is going to torture me wondering and having to wait.

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Mon, 11-10-2003 - 4:05pm
I know what your saying the waiting is driving me crazy to I think if your pg you should be able to find out right away someone needs to invent a test that will tell you as soon as you think you are pregnant. I was having cramps all morning I hope it dosen't mean af is coming but still it is not due for another 11 days so I don't know what to think :( well I have to go do some errands I'll chat with ya later :)

 

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