why am I not pregnant yet???
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why am I not pregnant yet???
| Wed, 01-16-2008 - 8:04pm |
I am 30 years old and a newly wed, my husband and I have been married for 6 months now. He's 31 and we both want kids and realize the longer we wait the harder it may be on us

First of all just remember it is totally normal to have these "things" make you feel frustrated. Every woman is different, so I can't really give you any advice about what is "normal". I will tell you that the very first thing you need to do is to go to your gyno and let them know your TTC. You may want to let he or she know that you feel like you might have difficulties getting pregnant because of the reasons you outlined below. They will be able to run tests or due blood work or all of the above! If you have already been checked out and given the green light you may just need a light jump start.
Good Luck to you! I hope you get you BFP!!!
Hello,
I am sorry you are going through this.
Do you chart your waking temps? Use Ovulation Predictor kits. Not to make you nervous but having normal periods does not mean you are ovulating and that you are fertile. Also your husband should have a sperm analysis. There could be a number of reason why you not getting pregnant...could be something physical or it could just be your timing.
TTC to conceive #1 officially since 2001. Dh had Varicocele surgery 2005 and has low sperm count. Dh tried Clomid..it didnt really help, HSG in 1999 and 2005, Charting since Jan 2006, <
Oh Sweetie...
I'm sending you so much love and hugs.
Hey Honey!
Thank you for your suggestions and reply to my post. I may have across as really worried about becoming pregnant, if I did, I did not mean to. Actually, I have that exact same outlook that you described....if it's meant to be, it will be. Both my husband and I share that outlook. Sure, we'd love to have kids someday however we're still somewhat newlyweds (been married for about 7 months now) and so we are enjoying life with just the two of us. We both have busy schedules and have our own business that is still getting off the ground and growing, so financially to be honest right now wouldnt be the *ideal* time for a baby. But then again, like so many people will say, there will never be a *ideal* time if you look at like that. I have never been "kid crazey" like some other women and friends I know. What I mean by that is I have never dreamt about becoming a mother...like sat and daydreamed about it. But yes, I do want a family and know that I will love my future children very, very much.
Up to the time we got married, I figured I had just been lucky to not get pregnant.
Oh, I didn't mean to imply that you were obsessed with it.
Hi!!
I understand your frustration,believe me!...
I am 32 years old now and had always,all my life,had a very healthy, textbook cycle that worked like clockwork so I never thought I would have any trouble conceiving in the future whenever the time was right(after finishing University and finding a stable job...).My biggest worry had always been "God,I hope I didn't get pregnant this time