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| Thu, 10-12-2006 - 1:16am |
I'm 24 and I've never been pregnant before. I don't really have any females in my life who I can talk to, so finding this site was like a god-send. I had sex about a week ago and for the past two days I've experienced intense nausea. I'll wake up and be nauseated for hours, then it will suddenly go away and I'll feel like I'm starving. After I eat the nausea creeps back up on me. Could this mean that I'm pregnant? We used a condom, but hey, those things aren't 100% reliable. I've tried to figure the days in my head and I was very probably ovulating. The long week until my period starts is going to kill me with suspense.

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I'm 23 and trying 4 my 1sr born, 3rd preg. I want to ask, what other sypmtoms do you have or is it just nausea? I am b tween 2-3 weeks late but my cycles have always been long cylces. So now I'm waiting, thinking AF might show. I ask your sypmtoms b/c I didn't get any symptoms right away with my 1st, I got them and thought AF was coming. Sore BB's were my only sign until about LMP 8-10 weeks that's when nausea kicked in full force. Now my BB's have a funny feeling/sensations and mild nausea. If you want to know for sure, TEST. Try a dollar store the have HPT and cheap. Good luck to you and I hope you get the answer your looking for. If you need a VentBuddy/WaitBuddy I'm here for you. I honestly feel like that is what is keeping me from retesting, I need one to;) I have NO ONE to share this with. Email me if you want to chat or vent like I said b4 :
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Good Luck
Elise
Thanks so much for the response! My BB's felt a little achey today, but maybe I'm just being paranoid. I can't test yet because AF isn't due for another week and the suspense is killing me. Monday I'm going to start trying the new Early Response tests, or whatever they're called. I'm not sure which answer I want to hear. I would love a baby, but right now that would mean being a single mom with a small income. My biggest problem would be finding someone to watch my kid while I work. And I don't know if the father will want to be involved. If there is a baby, I'm definitely keeping him or her and I'll just find a way to make it work. It's just hard to be alone in this right now.
Today I just felt like I had to DO something. I cut my hair, bought a book on pregnancy, and stared at baby booties. Maybe the constant work this weekend will keep me from completely losing my mind. I will probably be emailing you soon, Elise, lol. I feel your pain. Waiting sucks.
<3 Sara
Hi Sara,
Well heres the update: I noticed that had been going to the bathroom alot more lately. my BB's are now starting to get tender on the sides while the nipples become even more sensitive. I'm still sensitive to smells but no throwing up or anything. I stay queasy all day long and have to snack to keep it under some type of control. Now for the bad/sad news: I tested when I got home from work(which is where I am now) and it came back BFN.:( ARGH!! What is wrong with me. I'm starting to think that the birth control I was on after I lost the first is finally out of my system and AF is going back to her every 3 months visits. I'm confused scared and alot of other emotions I can't even put in to words. What I KNOW is that my last AF was almost 2 months ago. I have had a funny feeling all over my body like something is going on in there for like 3 weeks now but both test have been BFN. The test I took last night was a ClearChoice HPT, pee in the cup type test(the cup is the test). Have you heard of this test? I want to find ANY Reason that the BFN should indeed be a BFP. I keep thinking I did the test wrong. That was the frist time that I had use it. But I do know that I will need to go to the DR. As of Oct. 19-23 it will be two months since AF as shown her ugly face but I have had symptoms for like three weeks now. Hopefully Doc can give me my BFP or at least time me what is wrong with me. Until then I'm just "Waitin' & Hopin' & Prayin' & Wishin'! " I just pray work will keep my mind off of all this madness.
I would also be in that boat. A single mom with a small income. The Father says he would stay but he has his hands tied with HIS 2 kids. So I wouldn't really be expecting any support from him. I hope it works out better for you than me right about now....lol
Keep me posted. ..;)
and Thanks for responding...Good Luck
*blink* I typed a response days ago, but I guess it didn't go through. I was wondering why I hadn't heard from you!
The only reason I can think for you getting a BFN is if your body simply produces less of the pregnancy hormone than most women do. Obviously, I'm no expert, having never done this before, lol. But either way, if I were you I would definitely schedule that appointment with the DR asap. It would drive me crazy not knowing why my body was wigging out on me.
AF is due to arrive sometime this weekend. I already took one First Response hpt and it came out BFN, but I won't feel sure about anything until AF makes her appearance. I just wish I knew already, either way. It's hard to keep my worries from the might-be father. His friends are already noticing that I won't drink alcohol. I've made some stuff up, but I don't think I could outright lie to the father if he asked me. It wouldn't feel right to lie about something this huge, even if he neglected to tell me that he's engaged. (Oh yes, my life is a living soap opera >_<) I just need the not-knowing to be OVER.
I hope to talk to you soon. I've been wondering how you've been doing. My fingers are crossed for you!
<3 Sara
Well, the guy has been my bartender for two years now, and we just started hanging out outside of the bar a couple of months ago. I knew he used to be engaged, but he had told me months ago that he wasn't anymore. Two weeks ago we slept together. I knew he was a womanizer and that it didn't mean anything really. It was just fun. But I was still pissed two nights later when I was sitting with one of our friends, who happens to be one of his best friends, and she mentioned that she thought he was out having dinner with his fiance. I kinda blinked and said, "Oh, so they're back together?" And she said she didn't know they were ever broken up. I'm not too keen on being lied to. I never said anything to him about it though.
Anyways, as you can see, it just makes the whole situation even more complicated. Especially since I think he's engaged to the mother of his first kid. AF's a no show today, so I'm testing again tomorrow.
How was your Dr's appointment? Waiting sucks! I completely empathize with you right now. I have my fingers crossed for a prenatal visit. And if that doesn't work out, then I envy all the fun you'll be having TTC. *g* Don't forget to let me know when you get the blood test results back!
<3 Sara
Hi Sara,
I thought I posted a reply to your response but I guess it didn't show up. Well here's the skinny with me. I went to the Clinic appointment but was given the run around. They gave me another urine which also came back BFN:( then stuck my in a the lab for 15 min.( I was in the acutally lab surrounded by other womens pap samples) EWWW!!! I know. So I walked out I couldn't let them stick a needle in me. Yeah I know their sterile and all but no need to try my luck. So I have been waiting and waiting. I am now on CD67, no AF still some cramping, my BB's...well lets just say that I can barely cross my arms without pain, and I have started getting nausea to the point I'm running to the nearest bathroom. I'm getting really scared now and my S/O has started noticing the mood swings ( really a shift from normal to B**chy...lol) I just pray that 1: I get that BFP!!!! (YEA!!) Or 2: AF shows (BOO!!) But then I can plan my next step. Ok I'm just babbling now. I will post later please keep me posted on your test results. I hope you get the results your looking for.
Elise