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need opnion on 18 got 16 pregnant
| Mon, 08-09-2004 - 5:00pm |
an 18 yr old got my 16 yr old pregnant. I want him out of her life for good but at the same time i want him to know that what he did is not acceptable. what do you think is a good resolution to this problem?

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Shelby
SAHM to Haylei
But that's just my $0.02. I was 17 when I got pregnant and my parents were very supportive.
Although I must say if I were the one that had gotten pregnant I would have insisted on an abortion very early on. Of course that is up to the individual mother and in this case the mother's parents. A very tough, personal decision.
As for the boy. I wouldn't go to the cops. You would likely just drive your daughter to him. I would just try to support my daughter as much as possible. And make sure my daughter finished high school and got into college.
Good luck. I'm sure you'll make the right choice.
Hope everything works out for you.
juli23
Mindy the Birth Junkie
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I have to say I totally agree!
Now I know that this may not be the case at all with your dd. This guy may be really bad news, but there is no way I can give you any advice without knowing the whole situation. So my only advice is to let your dd call the shots as much as you can. She's going to be a mom and she needs you to start treating her like an adult. Raising a child is an adult situation and it's hard to act like an adult if you're being treated like a kid. (((HUGS))) I don't envy you. This is a tough situation- from all angles. Take care,
Shannon
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