How many?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-05-2004
How many?
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Fri, 11-19-2004 - 12:25pm
Sorry if this message is in the wrong section I wasnt sure where to put it as I am still relatively new on here. I am pregnant with my 4th child and i love children but i don't know whether to have anymore. My husband says he doesn't mind as he is from a big family and is used to alot of people around. Money is not a issue because we have just come into money due to inheritance. I was worried if i had another one and it was a boy. (I have 4 girls Lola, Carlee, Demi and soon Heidi. But would it be left out. Do you think i should stick with 4???

Proud Mom to

Lola Grace 03/19/98

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-11-2004
In reply to: kayleigh1991
Fri, 11-19-2004 - 12:45pm
I would just have as many children as you and your dh want to have and don't worry too much about the gender. If #5 turns out to be boy, he will just be spoiled rotten by all the girls in the family. LOL!
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2003
In reply to: kayleigh1991
Fri, 11-19-2004 - 12:46pm

Hi! You probably want to go to the deciding to try board, or the mediuam sized family boards. They are great and deal with these issues.

Personally I came from a family of 4 and am the only girl. I was fine with that. I was very close to my younger brother. I suggest waiting until after you have #4 to see how that feels and then decide based on your desire at that point.

Best wishes! Jules