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I need someone 2help me figure out men!!
| Wed, 02-16-2005 - 11:43pm |
Hey guys, Just got into a hufe fight with my husband because he says he isn't sure he wants anymore kids, and it is making me really upset because when we got married we always said we were going to have at least four, and I want to have a girl and I guess I should wait til tom. to right this becasue i am very emotional right now. He just made me so angry... he said it so matter of factly, like i didn't have a say...well I want more kids and i think i have a right to have a say...ugh i hate men right now!
Sorry for venting so late.
Casey Jean
mommy to RIORDEN, BRENNAN, BRAIDYN
puppy KAI



(((((((HUGS)))))))))
Maybe he is just having a bad day. Maybe, he will have a different answer tomorrow. Men are so indecisive!!! Did he not say why!!??
I hope things work out for you.....
Well, I'm not married, so take this with a grain of salt. But, my best friend is about to get married, and she and her fiance had a similar fight a while back. He said he didn't want more than 2 kids, and she said that if their first 2 were boys, she definitely wanted to try a third time for a girl. This is different from your situation, because they don't have any kids at all, yet. But, according to her, his concern was that if they tried a third time for a girl, and then it turned out to be another boy, that she'd wanted to try ad infinitum to have a girl. He wanted to set a limit up front so that there would be none of that "let's just try one more time" business and so they didn't end up with 5 or 6 kids (5 or 6 sounds perfect to me, but they want a smaller family). Maybe that's your husband's problem--you already have 3 boys. Maybe he just isn't prepared for you possiblly to have a 4th boy and then want to try for a 5th child on the chance that it'll finally be your girl, and then for a 6th, and so on. I completely sympathize with you...I swear, if I had 16 boys, I'd still want to try one more time for a girl...well, maybe not 16 :-) !
Let us know how everything turns out. Good luck!