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| Tue, 05-10-2005 - 6:37pm |
i am 23 years old and i have 3 beautiful girls age 4-2-and a 7 month old and yesterday i found out that i am pregant i dont know if i should be happy or sad but i just need some advice i dont know if i should keep what do u girls think

First of all, nobody really knows what's right for you, but you, so I know that I cannot give you PERFECT advice. If it was me, I would be extremely happy, but I lost two babies before I finally got Noel. One of them was a tubal pregnancy, almost 8 years ago. I still mourn for my lost children. Sit back and relax, and weigh out your pros and cons, of having another child in your blessed family. Would it be another mouth to feed, or more love in a house that is overflowing.
If you find that you feel that you don't want to raise another child, contact an adoption agency, in your area. Give someone else, who cannot achieve this dream themselves, a chance to experience the joy you feel of coming home to the pitter-patter of little feet. Most couples, who are eager to adopt, will also offer to pay any medical bills you may incur.
I'm sorry if I didn't help, much, I don't believe in abortion so I cannot encourage it. I still don't speak to a sister who had an abortion, because she was afraid she might miss some really good parties.
Whatever decision you make has to be the right one for you, and your family.
Good Luck.