Should I use the name Lorelei?
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| Fri, 04-28-2006 - 10:42am |
I'm sure you are all sick of my inquiries regarding the name Lorelei. I do really appreciate and value your feedback, though, and I take it very seriously.
In order to get a variety of opinions, I went on to a German baby name web site and asked about the name Lorelei. Many people disliked the idea of using the name, saying it was the name of a Rock and not to be used for a child or just plain "goofy" (that's what I get for asking for opinions, I suppose). Of course, they also said that it is very unusual in Germany to give children the name of a place or country. There were a few people (probably from the younger crowd) that liked the idea. Of course, they had all seen the Gilmore Girls, so it wasn't as strange to them.
Should I take these opinions with a grain of salt? I mean, we are in the U.S. where the name is not unusual to hear. But then again, part of the reason I chose Lorelei was to honor my Austrian ancestry. I just love the way Lorelei sounds, and I think it's a beautiful name. I guess I'm just trying to decide what's more important - honoring my heritage with a "normal" Germanic name or choosing one that I like regardless of opinions and perceptions. I suppose the only time I would have to worry about anything would be if we ever went to Germany or Austria, which is highly unlikely. Or if she was introduced to a native-born German or Austrian. :)
What do y'all think I should do? I really value your thoughts and appreciate y'all putting up with my questions. Your feedback would be appreciated! Thank you!

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Good luck
Amber :)
I think you should use it if you like it, regardless of what others think. I think it's a great name!
Terra.
dixie
thanks for sharing that. it really makes me feel more confident in my decision. let me know if you need a sounding board for your name choices. i can definitely empathize with your struggles. choosing a name that will be with your child for life can be such a difficult decision. it's not easy. good luck in your search!
serendipity
You already know what I think, but I'm going to throw in my two cents worth anyway:
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