Should I use the name Lorelei?

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Registered: 01-18-2006
Should I use the name Lorelei?
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Fri, 04-28-2006 - 10:42am

I'm sure you are all sick of my inquiries regarding the name Lorelei. I do really appreciate and value your feedback, though, and I take it very seriously.

In order to get a variety of opinions, I went on to a German baby name web site and asked about the name Lorelei. Many people disliked the idea of using the name, saying it was the name of a Rock and not to be used for a child or just plain "goofy" (that's what I get for asking for opinions, I suppose). Of course, they also said that it is very unusual in Germany to give children the name of a place or country. There were a few people (probably from the younger crowd) that liked the idea. Of course, they had all seen the Gilmore Girls, so it wasn't as strange to them.

Should I take these opinions with a grain of salt? I mean, we are in the U.S. where the name is not unusual to hear. But then again, part of the reason I chose Lorelei was to honor my Austrian ancestry. I just love the way Lorelei sounds, and I think it's a beautiful name. I guess I'm just trying to decide what's more important - honoring my heritage with a "normal" Germanic name or choosing one that I like regardless of opinions and perceptions. I suppose the only time I would have to worry about anything would be if we ever went to Germany or Austria, which is highly unlikely. Or if she was introduced to a native-born German or Austrian. :)

What do y'all think I should do? I really value your thoughts and appreciate y'all putting up with my questions. Your feedback would be appreciated! Thank you!

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Registered: 09-09-2004
Fri, 04-28-2006 - 7:55pm
I LOVE Lorelei. It's adorable. And unusual. Use it!
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-30-2004
Fri, 04-28-2006 - 9:09pm
Honoring you heritage or not Lorelei is a great name especially with the trim and cute nn Lee.





Peggy

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-30-2005
Sat, 04-29-2006 - 5:30pm
I honestly think it's a great choice. You obviously love it, so go for it!
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-01-2005
Sat, 04-29-2006 - 8:55pm

I love Lorelei on a little girl! I think it is a beautiful name. I don't see a problem with using the name eventhough in Germany it may be "goofy", this isn't Germany and I don't think ppl will look at it like that.

Dawn

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