just need some love

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-28-2009
just need some love
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Fri, 01-21-2011 - 3:10pm

you guys have been so great to me lately and i really appreciate that. I feel the need to vent because i just sent the baby with my aunt since i go back to work tonight. I know i should feel lucky that im a nurse and i only work 2 nights a week but it just doesnt seem to make it easier for me. I miss her already and i dont know how people can do this 5 days a week. I know shes ok but for today i dont feel like i am. Thanks again for all your help i just needed to tell someone that !

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-06-2008
Fri, 01-21-2011 - 4:34pm

((((HUGS)))))))) I know exactly how you feel. I am also lucky enough that I only work 12-14 hrs per wk...However leaving her (only w/ my mother or DH) For the 1st time was soooooooo hard. I always think "I am her mom and I do it best" That's what I think anyway:smileywink:I so miss her when I am gone but I am at the point where I think its good for her to be separated from me every now and then. Also I REALLY enjoy working when I am there. There is something to be said for adult conversation a couple times a week. LOL!!!

In a few weeks you'll feel better. Your daughter is in great hands. Good luck!

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-27-2008
Tue, 01-25-2011 - 12:07am
{{[HUGS}}} I know it's so hard to leave your precious little one. If it helps at all it gets a little easier over time....