Very sorry for your losses, Kim.
I think right now the only thing you can do apart from praying is just wait. At 11dpo, it's still a bit early to test. Even a blood test could be iffy. Were I you, I'd either get a HPT and test in a week, minimum, (I believe I tested with #3 at 18dpo and got my BFP) or go see a doctor to get the blood test.
I wish you much luck and hope that everything turns out well for you.
Just found out I'm pregnant at 43 and researching everything I can about a successful journey.
Hi I'm Joanne also 43 and pregnant. I'm 7wks 3days. I have all of the same concerns as you do it's only natural. I haven't told very many people about the pregnancy yet as I'm waiting to get the 1st trimester over and done with. Congratulations on your new blessing!!!