Hi Angie, congratulations! Yes, if I were you I would change doctors. Who needs extra doom and gloom in their lives? With luck you'll be able to find a supportive doctor who helps you to appreciate your good fortune in getting pregnant.... rather than focusing on the possible problems. I hope everything will go smoothly for you!
I am right there with you. I just turned forty. I had a loss last February and the July before that. I'm very scared now. I just have to remember to trust in God's plan and believe that one way or another everything will work out just fine. (I have adoption in my plans for the future and that helps me get through too.) I've had horrible symptoms with all of my pregnancies (I only have one child for four pregnancies) and well these awful symptoms have not meant anything good the majority of the time. So...be happy you are symptom free. I feel like this whole experience is self-inflicted torture at this point. I want another biological child, but I don't know how much more of this I can take. So...sorry for going on. I understand you though! Definitely see if you can find a specialist (one who specializes in pregnancy loss.) I switched doctors and am very thankful I did! Anyway, here's hoping we both stick around!!!