preg-live together

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Registered: 09-16-2011
preg-live together
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Fri, 09-16-2011 - 8:30pm

would you have any issues with getting preg while living your bf or would you want to be married?

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Registered: 07-09-2005
Mon, 09-19-2011 - 12:45am

I don't think the piece of paper is the important thing - what is important is how secure you feel in the relationship, and how you see this person as the father of your child, which he will always be forever.

I know a couple who had 4 kids and were together 12 yrs before they got married. They finally did because one stopped working and wanted to be on the other's health insurance.

Or perhaps you want this baby regardless of how the relationship with the bf is going.

So what really matters is how you feel about it all and what difference a piece of paper would make to you but once you have a child with someone you are forever bonded to that person whether you like it or not.