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Wed, 08-03-2011 - 8:53am

I had my first OB appt last week, it was exactly what I thought, they took my history, bp and I was done.

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In reply to: daisy3600
Wed, 08-03-2011 - 9:19am
It is hard to have faith after a loss, very hard.

From my experience, you need to TRY and enjoy what you have... right now, you are pregnant, right now, your baby is fine, enjoy this moment and enjoy this time. We know all too well that things can turn, but if they do, you will have some happy memories rather than all scared ones. I regret that most about my last pregnancy, I have 35 weeks of scared memories, my last pregnancy ended at 35w1d with my baby being born still, I never felt hopeful, I did have a few happy memories, like the baby kicking and stuff, but those scared and terrified memories mostly outweight the good memories, and I regret that.

FX for a healthy bean!


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In reply to: daisy3600
Wed, 08-03-2011 - 10:27am

I'm sorry your appt wasn't more reassuring.

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Wed, 08-03-2011 - 10:43am
I'm sorry you didn't get anything more reassuring Lesley. I couldn't have said it more beautifully than Torie did. She's right, you've gotta focus on the positives for today. My counselor told me the same thing, and it does help to calm me down some days.
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In reply to: daisy3600
Wed, 08-03-2011 - 2:19pm

Lesley, oh crud! Why won't they give you an ultrasound? That's crazy, especially when you've had a loss (or losses). You'd think they'd give you one for comfort. When will they give you one then? I kwym about wondering if the m/s is for nothing or not. That's the reason I

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In reply to: daisy3600
Wed, 08-03-2011 - 3:12pm
((hugs)) I'm sorry you're still waiting...always waiting, aren't we? The nausea is a good thing but not reassuring to PAL brain. I hope time flies between appointments so you can see your bean.
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In reply to: daisy3600
Wed, 08-03-2011 - 6:52pm

Bummer for an appointment.

Me () -- 34 DH -- 37 Conceived DS naturally after almost 2 years TTC and one loss. Currently have been TTC #2 after 2 more years and two more losses. Recently found polyp in uterus. Scheduled for hysteroscopy and removal 6/2011..... Instead surprise
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In reply to: daisy3600
Thu, 08-04-2011 - 1:18pm

Thanks ladies.

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In reply to: daisy3600
Thu, 08-04-2011 - 2:18pm
Lesley, that's exactly how I've felt and your DH sounds a lot like mine. I'm at 25 weeks and still in a bit of denial, but the fear that overwhelms in the beginning does get a little better. ((hugs))
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In reply to: daisy3600
Sat, 08-06-2011 - 6:34pm

Man, oh, man. I wish they would have given you a u/s at that appointment or at least scheduled one for the 16th. I'm sorry you have to wait. I really think the only reason I am having early u/s as often as I am is because I'm with the RE who did my surgeries, and the condition treated by the surgeries makes me high risk. I do agree with pp about the NT scan. I would ask about it at your appointment on the 16th since there is that window for the test.

I'm glad your DH is in such good spirits. Hopefully you'll get the u/s soon. ((HUGS))

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In reply to: daisy3600
Mon, 08-08-2011 - 9:34am
HUGS, hope all is well.