I am 2 days shy of being 19 weeks.
Don't feel bad about not feeling your LO.
It has been a long time and I may be wrong but with all 5 of my boys I swear I felt defeant movement right around 14 weeks. I am much fluffier this time but at 17 1/2 weeks I am just feeling flutters every once in awhile. I have always heard it not uncommon to be 20 +weeks or so am trying not to freak out. If you are hearing the heartbeat that far more important and you may just have a calm baby in there.
You could try a high sugar orange drink or some chocolate to try and wake baby up, tbh as long as you can hear hb i wouldn't worry.
I have a friend who is pregnant with her 6th baby and she is 24 weeks and hasn't felt the baby move yet. I think a lot of it has to do with the position of your uterus, the baby, and the placenta. Thank goodness for that doppler, right?? I think as long as you're still picking up a HB, you're good to go! Hopefully you'll start feeling your little one soon!
Oh Katie don't tell me that I was hoping for more than random flutters soon but hearing your friend is also on her 6th and not even feeling baby at 24 weeks is depressing.
Don't worry AT ALL.
Thank you to every one of you ladies for the positive advice.