P&PTs for a friend..

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P&PTs for a friend..
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Mon, 04-16-2012 - 3:05pm

Some P&PTs please.. A friend of mine got pregnant, and miscarried, shortly after I miscarried. She then found out she was expecting again soon after I did. She just lost her baby at 39 weeks. I haven't spoken to her, giving her space as we weren't too close, so I don't know what happened, I got up and found this on facebook. My heart just broke for her

---"I'll love you forever, I'll like you for always. As long as I'm living my baby you'll be."
Rest in Peace, Baby Gemini.

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Mon, 04-16-2012 - 6:15pm

I will be praying for your friend. I too had a friend who lost a baby at 39 weeks; at the time I had just given birth to my DD 6 weeks prior. My advice to you is to reach out to her with just a brief message saying that you are sorry for her loss and that she is in your thoughts and prayers. If she wants/needs to talk about it she will contact you. It took my friend months before she could talk to me about it.

Such a sad situation.

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Mon, 04-16-2012 - 6:56pm

Lot's of P& PTs for your friend and her family. That is just so sad :(

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Tue, 04-17-2012 - 2:01am

That is absolutely devastatin, stories like that scare me from havin anymore because I don't think I could recover from a crush like that.

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Tue, 04-17-2012 - 3:46pm
That is awful. It breaks my heart reading stories like this. It is scary.
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Wed, 04-18-2012 - 11:43am

Maybe you could send her a note saying that you were there if she wanted to talk or needed anything.

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Wed, 04-18-2012 - 3:51pm
I've sent her a few messages just to let her know I'm here and apologize I couldn't make the funeral. We didn't have anyone to watch the LO, and I know it would hurt her more having me show up with my new baby. She hasn't responded to anything so I'm just giving her time. I hope, if she wants support, she'll eventually come to me.

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Fri, 04-20-2012 - 3:05pm

This gave me the chills.. I can't imagine what she is going through.. Praying for her and her family..

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Fri, 04-20-2012 - 7:11pm
I'm so sorry for your friend. I can't imagine tht pain......
Sending her & her family P&PT.

Jenn (28) & DH Zach (28)
Married 9/24/2005

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Sat, 04-21-2012 - 11:36am
I'm so , so sorry to see this. I cannot imagine how devastated she must be. :(

 


 


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Wed, 04-25-2012 - 1:04pm
So sorry to hear this.. every parent's nightmare. Makes me want to have my induction sooner than 39 weeks! :(
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