Stupid PAL brain
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Stupid PAL brain
| Mon, 03-28-2011 - 12:51pm |
For some reason (PAL brain) I'm having a really hard time switiching from regular clothes to maternity clothes, not so much the pants it's more the shirts for some reason. I just have this fear that the day I actually decided to wear them something is going to happen. I know I would feel more comfortable but I keep thinking that then people would actually know I was pregnant instead of just getting fat, lol. Then if something happened, again, I'd feel like an idiot. UGH!
It's probably just me feeling nervous since I'm so close to when we lost Grey (2 more weeks). Hopefully once I get past that date I'll start feeling more confident.
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I was like that, too, when I was pg with DS.
But I do feel you... I have pulled out all of my maternity clothes and washed them, I came across the shirt I was wearing the day Landon died, I put it back, I just don't think I can wear that one.
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Plus, you are pregnant!!! It really makes me feel sad that we are so afraid to embrace our pregnancies & you're worried about feeling like an idiot if god forbid something happened.
I kept my first losses secret from friends & I think it was the worst thing I could do. Sure some ppl dont give the support you need but some do. There is no reason for YOU to feel like an idiot.
Do what ya gotta do but please dont feel like an idiot!!
I think all of us can relate if it was not maturnity clothes than it was telling people or some other milestone that made it all public. ((((HUGS)))