Trying not to make myself crazy...

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Registered: 11-10-2004
Trying not to make myself crazy...
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Mon, 12-12-2011 - 1:08pm

My first appointment with a nurse midwife in on Monday. I feel like I may go crazy before then. I am at 9 weeks, and my symptoms have suddenly disappeared. No more bloating, tiredness, breast tenderness, excessive hunger. I don't have any cramping or bleeding. But since I have already suffered a miscarriage, I am so worried. As much as I don't like feeling sick, I want those symptoms back! Crazy, I know, but I can't help myself.

We did already see a heartbeat at 6w5d. But I am an older mom so I know that we are not out of the woods yet.

This is going to be one very long week. :smileysad:

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Registered: 12-28-2010
Mon, 12-12-2011 - 1:42pm

Aww I'm sorry that you have to wait this long week! I know that morning sickness symptoms come and go, so try not to worry! It is really good that you have no cramping or bleeding, plus the rate of miscarriage drops significantly after the baby's heart beat is detected. P&PT to you.

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Registered: 05-03-2007
Mon, 12-12-2011 - 4:34pm
Well.. if this helps... I had pregnancy symptoms with all 5 of my m/ c 's and never had morning sickness or sore boobs nothing with my two healthy babies.. with this prrgnacy i lost 11 pounds in a month from being so sick.. ugh. So i had assumed id lose this pregnacy.. in my world pregnacy symptoms where bad... But my little one is fine and im 19 weeks.. so.. u cant go by symtoms.. relax...
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Registered: 11-10-2004
Tue, 12-13-2011 - 5:48pm

I made an appointment with my RE for an u/s. They have never made me feel crazy, and they are wiling to let me come in tomorrow. That makes me feel better. It could be nothing, But when I have a miscarriage in the spring I feel this exact same way. My symptoms just disappeared one day. I hate to go all the way to the RE (it is quite a drive,) but I suppose peace of mind is worth it.

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Registered: 05-03-2007
Tue, 12-13-2011 - 6:32pm
Piece of mine is worth it! Do what ever u need to do to relax.. and ur not crazy! We all feel the way you do..thats why we have a PAL board..so we can sweat a pregnancy out with other ladies like ourselves... i lived on my doppler till i could feel her moving everyday.. im 19 weeks and i have had 4 ultra sounds! My dr. Always understands .. his wife had multple m/c's so he is very very supportive..
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Registered: 05-12-2008
Fri, 12-16-2011 - 8:36am

I hope that everything went well with your u/s.

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Fri, 12-16-2011 - 12:55pm

I hope everything's ok. Please update us when you can. {{{HUGS}}}

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Tue, 12-20-2011 - 8:32am

I haven't seen an update,

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Tue, 12-20-2011 - 12:49pm

Yeah, I've been wondering myself. I hope she's ok.