5 months pregnant and alone

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Registered: 04-04-2010
5 months pregnant and alone
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Mon, 04-05-2010 - 12:36am
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Registered: 10-26-2008
Thu, 04-08-2010 - 8:57pm
I can relate to your situation. The father and I were together on and off for two years. When I found out I was pregnant and decided to have it, he stopped coming around. Throughout the last six months he has been in and out. The latest time a few weeks ago I agreed to talk to him and then see him, he disappointed once again. He came over at 10pm and left at 11:15pm. He was stopping by on his way out for the evening. I have made the choice that I don't want to see him anymore or give him anymore chances. He just always disappoints me and I can't deal with it anymore. I have given up on the chance he will come around and be the man I want him to be. I know how you feel though. It's so hard being pregnant and alone. I catch myself crying over the smallest things. I can't stand the way people treat me, when they find out I'm doing it alone. I just keep telling myself that once my son is here I won't care about any of it anymore cause I will have him to focus all my energy on. I have set my mind to raising a son that would never treat women the way his father does. That is what is getting me through. Also, I have good days and bad days and I don't think that will change ever. So when I'm having a bad day I tell myself it will pass. I wish you all the best. Try to stay positive even though it's tough to do some days.