Hi, I am 33 yrs old and am 5 months pregnant. My "boyfriend"
I'm due on Aug 7th and I find out what I'm having on Mar 24th :) I have not joined any support groups or gone to any counceling ... yet! I've had a few days to cool off and am coping a bit better than I was (thank god) The hoplessness and despair are not as overpowering only a few days after he dropped that bomb on me, which is a great feeling as I know I will get through this (quicker than I think too!) I have great friends and family, so I am very thankfull :) I know that he is a bum and a deadbeat and no relationship will ever work out because he is emotionally unavailable and really immature!!! I'm not worried about it. When he tries to come back (which he will) I will not be here. I blocked him from any and all contact (phone, email, facebook etc.) I am also moving in 2 weeks and he has no idea where I will be. He will soon know what it feels like to have the proverbial rug "ripped out from under him" just like he did to me and our sweet baby!
Thank you so much!!! I know I will get through this! I will eventually thank him for making the best decision for me...one that I wasn't strong enough to make for myself. Divine intervention is sometimes very painful yet necessary.
thank you for sharing your story, my "ex" did the same thing to me.