Broken :(

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Broken :(
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Tue, 03-15-2011 - 1:49am

Hi, I am 33 yrs old and am 5 months pregnant. My "boyfriend"

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Registered: 11-13-2008
In reply to: erina77
Tue, 03-15-2011 - 1:34pm
(((HUGS))) Erina, I'm so sorry that you are going through this. He's treating you so badly, you deserve better. I know it's scary to be alone, but you can do this. Be strong for not just yourself, but your baby. It really helps to talk about it, we'll be here for you.

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In reply to: erina77
Tue, 03-15-2011 - 2:34pm
Huge hugs!! I'm sorry he did that too you! You deserve a better dude than that! Here is your life line right here on this board! The ladies here are awesome! Are you a part of any support groups? Have you looked into any counseling? Sometimes that helps to be able to have a safe place in real life to talk about things. When are you due? Do you know what you are having yet?

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In reply to: erina77
Wed, 03-16-2011 - 2:00pm

I'm due on Aug 7th and I find out what I'm having on Mar 24th :) I have not joined any support groups or gone to any counceling ... yet! I've had a few days to cool off and am coping a bit better than I was (thank god) The hoplessness and despair are not as overpowering only a few days after he dropped that bomb on me, which is a great feeling as I know I will get through this (quicker than I think too!) I have great friends and family, so I am very thankfull :) I know that he is a bum and a deadbeat and no relationship will ever work out because he is emotionally unavailable and really immature!!! I'm not worried about it. When he tries to come back (which he will) I will not be here. I blocked him from any and all contact (phone, email, facebook etc.) I am also moving in 2 weeks and he has no idea where I will be. He will soon know what it feels like to have the proverbial rug "ripped out from under him" just like he did to me and our sweet baby!

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In reply to: erina77
Wed, 03-16-2011 - 2:04pm

Thank you so much!!! I know I will get through this! I will eventually thank him for making the best decision for me...one that I wasn't strong enough to make for myself. Divine intervention is sometimes very painful yet necessary.

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In reply to: erina77
Wed, 03-16-2011 - 2:09pm
Good for you!!!!

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In reply to: erina77
Sat, 03-19-2011 - 2:21am

Hi,

thank you for sharing your story, my "ex" did the same thing to me.