Confused as to what to do.

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Registered: 07-30-2008
Confused as to what to do.
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Wed, 05-05-2010 - 6:28pm
Hi ladies, I have a question in which I could use some advice. My baby daddy wanted me to get an abortion or leave, so I left, had our baby girl in March. He was at her birth and he has been in my life from afar since I left to give us some distance back in November. He and I are working on reconciling, he says he wants us in his life however he was extremely hurt by the fact that I left him...we have been talking through email and I have been asking him a ton of hard questions, and he made a comment to me that moving back in with him things would be different and i shouldnt expect him to be "lovey dovey" with me.. at least for awhile... then he wrote me this "don't hope for anything, but you will for the time being be secure and have a roof over your head. Just like what you wanted." I am not sure how to take that...
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Registered: 05-03-2010
Wed, 05-05-2010 - 7:14pm

Hi,


I am glad to hear that he was by your side at the birth of your baby.