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Registered: 03-01-2010
Mon, 03-01-2010 - 9:02pm
This is my first followed through pregnancy. I have had two abortions both by men I was with. I was scared of being a parent with men I knew I was not going to commit. Since the last one in 2005, I have been very careful and safe with preventing pregnancy. As I got older STDs was a concern for me. I allowed my emotions to come into play not being wise. I slipped up with a man I do not know well and really I do not want to tell him. I think the responsibility is mine. How can I hold him responsible for me choosing to have this baby? Do I tell the father to be?

Edited 3/1/2010 9:07 pm ET by roysterbaby1