HELP! Single Pregnant 18 year old girl!

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HELP! Single Pregnant 18 year old girl!
Tue, 07-27-2010 - 9:16pm


I'm Kimberly Anne Shields,

My boyfriend recently broke up basically forever!! We had been going out for 7 months, and it just couldn't last anymore, I guess. I never thought in a million years I would of ended like this. :( But sadly, it did. I had a chatting account which and deleted me from his after we had a huge fight. So, after a few days of pain, tears, and agony. I made another account, basically begging for help, any help. At that time, I found out I was possibly pregnant with his child to be. We just argued more, and it got to a even worse point. He said " I don't won't anything todo with that stupid useless kid and your ugly stupid self," He had said worse words than those, I was be nice with the words. Anyways, he also wished death on me and his child. I have

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Fri, 07-30-2010 - 12:48pm

(((HUGS))) Kimberly, I'm sorry that you are going through this.

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Sat, 07-31-2010 - 9:20pm

Hey Kim,

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Tue, 08-10-2010 - 7:59pm
I would have to say, let the p#!%* go. I wouldn't bother telling him anything if I were you, he has already proclaimed that he doesn't care so you have to make the right decision for your baby. And on that note, I'm sure it would kill you to tell your child that...but it would hurt your child a lot more. Please don't ever tell that baby that it's father "wished death on it and never wanted it to see the light of day." It is inevitable that the child will inquire of it's father at some point or another and it is up to you soften than blow for the childs sake, not repeat what that p#$!* said.

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Tue, 08-17-2010 - 12:42pm
I'm so sorry you're going through this :(

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Registered: 09-10-2010
Fri, 09-10-2010 - 8:15am

Hi Kimberley.

I'm 18, pregnant and single too.

I was living with my son-to-be's dad but all he ever did was shout at me and get agressive! I wasn't aloud to talk to anyone or have a life! He would smoke drugs around me and get his friends round too, to do the same! He used to reduce me to tears regularly! I decided enough was enough and I moved back in with my parents! And to be honest, we are better off without the men if they don't care enough!He also said he wants a new born baby to spend 4 nights with him and 3 nights with me!! He has a criminal record and expects me to allow an innocent child to be exposed to that!!!but its not going to happen!

It's not fair, that girls like me and you get looked down on! We just need to prove everyone wrong! I am due in December and since I have been pregnant I have passed my Horse Psychology an Behaviour diploma at the highest level and I am working on 2 other horse diplomas and hope to open up a business in the future!

You will be a great mother! If you need someone to talk to, I will listen!!

Big cuddles!