How to get rid of the father??? Advice

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How to get rid of the father??? Advice
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Thu, 03-18-2010 - 9:43pm

My ex is begining to feel like a stalker. He texts me between 3 and 10 times a day if I don't respond to his texts for





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Registered: 01-04-2010
Fri, 03-19-2010 - 12:04am


Short answer...you can't.

If he is the father of your child, like it or not he has rights...but...not until the child is born. You are under no obligation to talk to him, your communication can be through courts and lawyers, but he will be given rights to be involved in his child life.

You can contact a lawyer and discuss harassment..but that will probably only end him speaking directly to you.

This is just 100% honest and I mean this directed at myself as well....The moment we have control over whether or not we can make someone "go way" or whether or not it will matter if they will just abandon us is before we decide to make a baby with them.

I learned the hard way.

Best of luck...just talk to a lawyer to see what your rights are.