Plz don't judge me I need your advice

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Registered: 12-27-2010
Plz don't judge me I need your advice
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Mon, 12-27-2010 - 1:20am

I am 25 years old and almost 4 weeks pregnant. I have an excellent well paying permanent job and I am on a waiting list for my own home. I presently have no kids and I live at home with my mother and brother. The problem I'm having is that I was having unprotected

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Registered: 01-29-2008
Mon, 12-27-2010 - 8:54pm
I won't judge you, but I think you need to be honest with the men that it might not be their child. If you give birth to a white baby what will the black man say? If you have a black child and want to stay with the white guy what will he say? Having sex with married men without protection and no birth control isn't smart.

As far as options. Only you will know if Abortion is right for you. My baby's dad wanted me to abort but not an option for me. But I know woman that have and it was the best thing for them. I think maybe you should cut ties with the men and figure out what YOU want and what will be best for you and the baby. But you need to be honest with both the potential fathers and any man you are thinking of being with.

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Tue, 12-28-2010 - 6:39pm

Hello, you have a lot going on but nothing that can't be handled. I believe the best choice for you is the one you decide for yourself and not what others say. I too am pregnant and single and have three other children with a very well paying job but am not cornered with others opinions. The best choice for you should be made stress free and without emotions involved. If you are not comfortable with a miscarriage then don't do it. The men should know about each other because unlike these men you don't want to be deceitful. I believe eventually you will find your soulmate although I don't know when but if you continue with these married men/other men you will never meet your mate. I feel every women has the potential to be a great mom whether married or single . Me and my

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Registered: 11-13-2008
Wed, 12-29-2010 - 3:47pm

(((HUGS))) I know that this isn't going to be an easy decision for you at all, just try to look in your heart and figure out what the best option would be for you.

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Registered: 12-27-2010
Fri, 01-07-2011 - 9:17am
not a clue but the black man's wife found out I don't want to wreck his marriage or his home. Right now I'm leaning towards abortion but I'm really scared. Its the 1st time I'm pregnant and I want to have children in the future. I'm less than six weeks pregnant do you know of any safe pills?
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Registered: 11-13-2008
Fri, 01-07-2011 - 12:25pm

I know that this is going to be a hard decision to make, you need to do what is the best option for you.