Scared and lost

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Registered: 03-03-2011
Scared and lost
Fri, 03-04-2011 - 12:01am
I just found out 2 days ago that I'm pregnant and it is an unplanned one. Well before anyone chastise me, it was my fault for not being careful with my pills. I've only been with the guy for 5mos. I'm so torn right now,....
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Registered: 02-23-2011
Fri, 03-04-2011 - 7:12am
Most pregnancies are unplanned so no chastisement I feel u should do what is best for you at this point. If u decide to end ur pregnancy jus be sure u are doin it bcuz its smthin you want and not what everyone else thinks. It's natural to b scared..I'm almost 7 months and didn't kno what I wanted to do until about 2months into my preg. With all tha said gd luck with everything :)
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Registered: 11-13-2008
Fri, 03-04-2011 - 10:10am
Welcome to the board, you won't find anyone chastising you here because it can happen to anyone. Have you told your boyfriend about it yet? Just know that you aren't alone, we are here to support you.

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Registered: 01-29-2008
Fri, 03-04-2011 - 7:46pm
No one to chastise here.. this board is for support! I wasn't with my baby's dad long when we got pregnant and he took off. Things happen in life and you could have been taking the pill correctly and still gotten pregnant! Just know if you need to talk or vent here we are! Its a hard decision but you need to make it yourself. There are three options you have and you still have sometime from the sounds of it. Hugs to you! have you told your bf?

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